why is it that some actually think it is up to you to envoke change in them?

Question

I listen to customers all day long complaining and manipulating facts to try to better an outcome and then yell at companies for holding them down cause they (the customer) choose to breach contract...
Grow up if you get a disclosure and don’t read it, that isn’t anyone else’s fault but your own. Sympathy only goes so far! I get so frustrated for being made to empathize for someone else’s laziness...

Why as a society do we conform to sub par behavior rather than reward personal accountability?

Answer 1

some people are weak-minded and will not make any effort to do anything without the guidance of an outside source.

Answer 2

An action taken with advice is more informed than one taken without. The downside is that for each person the answer may be different, so often we begin to depend on other to live life for us.

Answer 3

Because some people prefer to be lived, rather than live. If they let others run their lives, it is another person's fault when it goes wrong. This is a sad, but common existence.

Answer 4

Sounds like a question for Oprah.

Answer 5

Depending on what you mean by this question so I will go like this...I offer my guidance to say my son...I know I cant change him cuz he has to learn lifes lessons on his own...I do offer him advice.

Answer 6

Because the person doesn't have a problem with him/herself. If you want the person to change them your the one that has the problem with the person. So, it's up to you to change them, why should they bend over backwards to please you?

Answer 7

i used to think like that but screw that you need to better yourself for yourself it's alrite to have a shoulder to lean on but not to carry you the whole way