I keep falling in love with different girls, but then they think I still like the last girl and say no. I am not a pervert. just very confused. How do I tell my wanna be girlfriend that I love her and only her, but with it sounding serious?
2006-06-28 11:04:29 · 22 answers · asked by petluvr1993 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you switch loves like you switch underwear, it sounds like you are confusing lust with love. You need to slow down. Those girls have it right when they spurn your love declarations. Love takes time to grow, not 5 minutes and a body check. So wait to say those words, until its been months or years instead of days. Slow down and take the time to understand the words you say.
2006-06-28 11:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Velken 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u need 2 be serious an d right now u don't sound serious. and if your falling in love with different girls your not in love. if u feel that u'r really in love with your girlfriend its time to let the other girls go and if your ready for it a proposal will be the best way.
2006-07-09 20:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by $$$DIAMOND$$$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep looking in your new love what you lost in the last one, YOU WILL NEVER STOP. i think that you keep going back or something like that because you are demanding and want it all. i have news for you: UNLESS YOU ARE DATING MISS PERFECT (which btw does not exist) you will have to learn to accept those girls the way they ar w/ out wondering if the last one was better because she had this or that>
And the best way to sound serious is not by saying it but by acting it :BE SERIOUS
2006-07-07 22:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all If you are telling a girl your are in love with her and only her than it is serious. you need to look her in the eyes and tell her tell her how you feel and how she makes you feel. in order for her to believe her you might have to cut the ties with all your exs. but if you really do keep switching loves then you most likely just like them our you are lusting for them. You need to really stop and think how you feel for this girl... whould you do anything for her to be happy? do you love to spend time with her and see her smile?
2006-07-12 08:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by blackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in love, your just a teenager. When your young you feel like you're in love with everyone (I felt that way also) truth is I never even think about those people anymore. Don't waste your time being "in love" with people anymore. Just spend time with your friends and family because you WILL remeber them 10 years down the road.
2006-07-08 14:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that u love her & if u didn't want 2 b with her, u wouldn't! Just reassure her that she is the 1 u want 2 b with & no 1 else.
2006-07-11 07:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my dear is not love, it is lust or rather infatuation (that can feel very much like love). You are young and as you get older you will find out what LOVE really is. Just let her know that you like her, you can do it. Speak from your heart. That is the best thing to do.
2006-07-12 09:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i met gaurav i was also like this...i switched to many guys just to find the best for me...and once i met gaurav i didnt like being with other guys...and i knew that he is the one...
if thats the reason for u too for switching the girls then carry on with it but my way...
but in case u fall for nebody u meet...u r in serious trouble...
when u fall for somebody ask urself whether she is right for u or not...n if yes talk to her..n tell her what u feel abt her..but don keep blabberring bt ur other gf's...she would hate it...n then u too...
2006-07-10 16:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by aru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you love any of these girls. I think you have to sort out your own feelings before you tell any of these girls anything else.
2006-07-09 21:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u keep falling in love with different girls then y should they trust u. maybe they think that u r gonna leave them for somebody else.
2006-06-28 13:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋