2006-06-28 10:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by inspiredguidence21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have the baby. you should have waited till marraige. shame on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 10:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd set up a dinner with him. Invite him to a safe secure place. Like your house. I wouldn't do it in public. Tell him you have something very important and life changing to tell him. He will know right off the bat if you put it that way. Then tell him. Let him think about it. And then see what his intentions are with you and the unborn child. He may be excited. Or he may not want it. Just be prepared for anything. And most of all be strong.
2006-06-28 17:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him what happened. He has to know. Then the two of you can talk about what to do. Both of you are the parents so you need to make a joint decision. Abortion should not be an option. It's a precious life you are carrying.
You should talk about marriage but please don't rush headlong into it if you are not ready to be committed to each other. There's nothing worse than messing up a marriage and ruining so many lives in the process.
But the baby needs a secure family. You'll need to figure how how you can support the baby emotionally and financially. You need to talk to your family to. Hopefully, they will support you.
2006-06-28 20:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Carpet Grass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened with protection? did the condom break? Just tell him, don't think about it to much and tell him 'cause otherwise this matter is gonna grow so big in your head that it'll be impossible to tell him. I know you are afraid of how he'll respond what you gotta be responsible for your actions and so does he. I hope you are both not too young 'cause having a kid its a lot of responsibility and hard work. Good luck!!!
2006-06-28 17:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by astra28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your body you do what is right for you. you had sex while being pregnant or you got pregnant with him while having sex? you could tell him, but based on his reaction you two might not continue the friendship. will you keep the baby or not. a lot of issues here. if you regret it and feel you cant deal with situation then seek help. but remember its your body , do what is right for you.
2006-06-28 17:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by montana_leather_thong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend the truth and see how he react. Such things cannot be hide.
Both of you should then plan for your long term commitment.
2006-06-29 10:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should tell him right away because if your cheating on him and he found out he won't know if that's his baby and if your not cheating on him you would be lieing to him by thinking that his son
2006-06-28 17:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by lovable kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell him break it gently and if he's a good friend then he will stand by you
2006-06-28 17:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days it is easy- send him an email
2006-06-28 17:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋