Does a girl like to ask the guy to have sex or do girls like it better when the guy asks her to have sex?
2006-06-28 10:35:26 · 18 answers · asked by Adam S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
nsrunner, I respect you so much for your decision. I know I don't have the wherewithal to never kiss before marriage, but I think I won't make out with anyone until I am engaged to them. And I am definitely sure that I will not have sex until I'm married. if you've ever seen Andy Hardy, there's this beautiful scene with his father about how everything he does with another girl is infidelity to his future wife, even if she's just a little girl in pigtails now. Your commitment to not kissing before marriage makes my commitment to staying a virgin seems small and weak.I hope it is enough.
Any way, the question in question. If you're asking you probably shouldn't be having sex (I'm feeling on high moral ground right now). You should talk about sex first. What it means to your relationship, the precautionary steps you're going to take, and what you will do if she becomes pregnant. If you want to take your relationship to this level, and feel that she might want to too, then talk about it. Talking about it can help. If you both decide that you're not ready for sex that decison can help you stop when you're in the heat of passion, because you'll both know what can happen. Whatever you do here's what I think. Never ever ever have sex when you can't afford to support the child that you might conceive. I only make exceptions for married couples, and even then, they should try to limit themselves.
2006-06-28 22:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by millancad 5 · 12⤊ 3⤋
LOL I tell my boyfriend I want sex when I'm feeling really turned on and vice versa. Or sometimes I dont bother telling him and I jump him *giggle*. It depends what you're into I guess, my boyfriend likes it when i'm subtle and coy about my feelings and then other times when i'm brazen and open about it. A sexual relationship is all about give and take. Sometimes these things just happen and you dont plan for it, so my best advice would be go with the flow, but have contraception to hand because you never know when it will strike you.
2006-06-28 17:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like it better when the guy ask them to have sex with her because when the girl ask the guy she will think hey this make me feel good that I ask him that but after that she might think hey this is not right Im a woman and my man suppose to offer me something so personal and I will know that hes absolutely sure that he does want to have sex with me because hes the one that offered it
2006-06-28 17:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by T_claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO YOUNG TOO YOUNG TOO YOUNG TOO YOUNG!!!! way too young. i will tell you my story and maybe this will change your mind about having sex. i met my fiance in 6th grade and we started dating a few moths after we met, while i was still in the 6th grade. he kept on asking me to kiss him. he wanted it so bad, but i knew that that was not what God wanted. this was not right so i didn't kiss him. we dated all through middle school and still no kiss. then we dated all through high school and still no kiss. 6 years later and still no kiss. so, what do we have that would make you every want to do this... we have a close intimate relationship with each other and with God. i know what he is going to say before he says it. i know what he is thinking before he thinks it. i know him better than any one and everyone(except of course God)he is the man that i am going to marry and still no kiss. more than six years later and an engagement and still no kiss. why??? it is not what God wants. Both of our first kisses will be on our wedding day at the alter. when we are married and that sort of behavior is appropriate. was it hard not to kiss him. of course. but the rewards are far greater. believe me once you meet that man that you are going to marry. that man that you are a better person with, because he is with you than you will understand what i gift from God your virginity is. it is the best gift that you could ever give your future husband and it is the best gift that he could give you. it tells him that you are special and i have resisted the urge and the want because i loved you even before i met you and i have saved this for you because i love you. it is so worth it . just believe me because if i had not waited i would have been so upset. because sex is love making that is intended to be between husband and wife. the sex will be better that way because it has meaning behind it. i'll pray for you and i hope that you make the right decision.
nsrunner16@yahoo.com
2006-06-28 18:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys asks girl
2006-06-28 17:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nikonluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best sex is when noone asks and it all happens naturally!!!! I dont mind doing the asking or being asked as long as I GET SOME!
2006-06-28 18:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to ask my boyfriend when i want sex, but it go's both ways he makes me hot so we have sex when ever we ask for it me or him .
2006-06-28 17:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by think_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell the truth I rather ask the my boyfriend to have sex.
2006-06-28 18:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy asks
2006-06-28 17:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by talktokrish12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls dont like it when the guy asks.
2006-06-28 17:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋