I have managed to reduce our love making down to just 15 times a day now but she wants more!! I've resorted to spiking her food with laxatives just to give me a rest.will this harm her?besides it's costing me a bloody fortune in pills and condoms
2006-06-28 10:15:30 · 28 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If youre having sex 15 times a day, your girlfriend must have an asbestos f*nny! She'd be seriously hurt by now. Def stop with the laxatives, thats just downrught cruel. Your best bet is to speak to your girlfriend and point out that sex doesnt necessarily mean love. lots of issues here man!
2006-07-05 06:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, when I read the question I was going to say - all the usual things about, isn't it unusual for a guy to complain that his girlfriend wants more sex, etc etc...
But, as a health professional (and a free spirit who loves sex) I have to say, 15 times a day is very unusua.
I do think that sounds obsessive, and my hunch is that she is using sex to fill an emptiness inside. Sex can be a fantastic distraction, and as well as the usual physical thrills, it gives a lot of attention.
I do think it might help to talk this through with a professional. If this isn't possible, my advice is, try to set some boundaries. Without sounding sexist, most women like a man to be masterful (it might not be politically correct but...)
Reassure your girlfriend that you love her and fancy her, but tell her that more than five times a day is not on. Experiemnet with making those five times really special.
If she still demands more - perhaps you need to think about what your needs are. Never mind the practical expenses - if you two carry on like this, you won't have energy or time for anything else in life - and life is about finding a balance.
Good luck. I hope it works out for you.
2006-06-28 17:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's all I have to say. Talk to her mannn...if she really loves you, she'll understand that you could use a little break from her libido. And if all else fails, I'd agree with the first answer: Go see a sex therapist with her, this is definitely not quite normal. Enjoyable. But definitely not normal or enjoyable in the long-term.
2006-06-28 17:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. right. in your wildest dreams,
honey, she'd be bleeding internally.
Secondly, if it was even 3 to 4 times a day, she has SERIOUS emotional issues. Sex has nothing to do with physical, it's all emotional. Someone (a woman) who craves it is actually craving attention, control and affection. Probably cause she was neglected as a child.
2006-06-28 17:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit using condoms & pills--then get her an appointment with a suitable doctor.
2006-06-28 17:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by art h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 times a day?You are making almost every hour.You have left no time to take food or even getting up from bed.After every session it takes more time for erection.May be tall claim or dick may be made of non corrosive steel.
2006-06-29 05:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I wouldn't complain, still that is an awful lot. Maybe there is something not quite satisfying her. See a sex therapist who might be able to help you find a way to keep her satisfied her for longer.
2006-06-28 17:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 times a day. Take her to the hosptial and ask them to do a cat scan of her head, cause something isn't right
2006-06-28 17:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by cboyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Riiiiight. Um, definitely lay off the laxatives. And get her a vibrator.
2006-06-28 17:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by yumyum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dreamer!
By 15 times , I think you mean 15 thrusts of your pelvis!!!
She's not a nympho - you are a premature ejaculator!!
No wonder she wants more sex - send her my way I'll show her what real sex is, boy!!!!
2006-06-28 21:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny Baggs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋