My best friend thought i slept with her boy friend but he told her it was a lie so she wouldn't have any friends. Now I'm questioning even wanting to be her friend again.
2006-06-28 10:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When that happened to me many years ago, it was devastating to loose a friend who I thought was "a friend." Now, as time passed, I figured that she was an acquaintance, some one who comes & goes in your life time. If she was that weak minded to just take his word for something as important as that without consulting you to straighten it out, then she's not your friend. Get a new one who values your friendship.
2006-06-28 10:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If there's no trust there's no relationship. You need trust in a friendship just like in a romantic relationship. If you can't trust them and they can't trust you why wast your time. She will probably do the same next time another guy comes around. If your OK with out the friendship then leave it alone. If you want to work on it then do so. From experience a friend i had that i have know since 4th grade used to always flirt with the guys i was dating. She ended up sleeping with three of my ex's. I tried to keep a friendship with her and it just didn't work. I didn't trust her and in the beginning of the year i set her straight and I'm the happiest person without her in my life. You don't need those kind of friends. Be true to yourself.
2006-06-30 06:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell how you really feel and remember that friends are always there when the guy is gone so remain friends unless this is something she keeps doing.
2006-06-28 10:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question? Anyway, you were wrong for sleeping with her boyfriend and you shouldn't have any friends because you can't be trusted!
2006-06-28 10:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends can and usally becomes you worest enimies. If she could do that to you now, what can she do to you furter down the road.
2006-06-28 10:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by David V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? if it's not true tell her that and if she can't believe you then why are you friend sin the first place, isn't friendships supposed to e about trust?
2006-06-28 10:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, love compels people to do weird things. if she apologizes, accept it and move on; you can never have too many friends
2006-06-28 10:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE I WOULDNT! cut her off and move on! she is dangerous and so is he! wake up girlfriend and MOVE ON TO BIGGER AND BETTER
2006-06-28 10:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋