My friend is pregnant and shes 15 the father lives on the other side of the country, what should I tell her??
2006-06-28 10:11:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her you love her and you will always be her friend and will support her in any decision she makes. But for this one only she can make this call. Give her my best.
2006-06-28 10:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rada2017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents. I hope they are the kind that will talk and not hit. This girl is over her head and needs more than you can give her right now. I am assuming you are her age. Some adult needs to know. Maybe a counselor at school. Usually there are help lines you can call. How old is the father. He needs to know also. I don't care how far away he lives, and his parents need to know. Go to the county health center and talk to a nurse, maybe she can help with some guidance
2006-06-28 17:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by c.nolan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents/family should be supporting her right now and helping her decide how to handle things. The 'father' must have a really long d*ck if he got her pregnant from across the country...
2006-06-28 17:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm hoping that she has a family that will help support her in whatever decision she makes. If not she needs to find an adult that she trusts and let them know what's going on...they can help lead her down the right path. If she doesn't want the baby at such a young age, adoption is a good way to go. Good luck to your friend! And also, you are a good friend to her..she's lucky to have such a caring person in her life. :o)
2006-06-28 17:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by pepsigrlfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her nothing. She needs to talk with her parents and discover the best route for her, her family, and her unborn child. She is really young to be having a baby. I'd say stay healthy, eat right and consider an open adoption.
2006-06-28 17:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that you still be her friend and that you ll help her out any way you can if she needs some to talk to or just to be there she needs to know that some one is there for her even if it a friend all ways remember a Friend you can find but a good Friend are made of gold
2006-06-28 17:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to talk with an agency who deals with teen pregnancy . Find one that isn't biased but can help guide her to the make the best choice for her and the baby
2006-06-28 17:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by ktwister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the father is over 18 tell the cops. also make sure she gets child support OCSE email womanissues2005@yahoo.com if she has more info and need answers good luck
2006-06-28 17:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very honest and upfront with her, I don't know what her relationship is like with this guy buy she is way too young to be saddled with this responsibility alone, unless she has alot of help from her family.
2006-06-28 17:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by puzzlefanatic2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to a responsible adult and tell them. Carry her child and give it up for adoption.
2006-06-28 17:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋