I don't really know if im les or not. i look at girls butts but i don't like them in a sexual way. Please help!
2006-06-28 09:58:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't really know if im les or not. i look at girls butts but i don't like them in a sexual way. I was one of my friends wanted to kiss me but i didn't want to kiss her. idk if it was cuz she is my best friend or if its cuz im straight. We did some sexual things but i don't like doing it w/ her. sometimes i think about doing sexual things with other girls but not her. Please help!
2006-06-28 10:13:06 · update #1
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2006-06-28 10:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by uhhhhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the asshole that said "low trash"
I am confused about this as well. If you look at Girl's butts like you would look at a man's butt try to determine if you want something from a female, like you would from a man at a bar.
You would kiss a guy, I'm assuming... but would you kiss a girl for the same reason? Not just as a party trick?
2006-06-28 17:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Alanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you're a lesbian, but I think you're at least bisexual. Or bi-curious.
Either way, when you think about f*cking girls, you're not straight.
But hey, take a deep breath, and calm down a little. Being queer isn't the end of the world, and worrying about it won't change it. Do some reading, do some thinking, maybe do some praying (if you're the religious type) and take life as it comes. Enjoy yourself, reflect on your emotions, but don't panic. Just remember to breathe. If you stop breathing, then we really have a problem here.
2006-06-28 20:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to ask yourself whether you would want to kiss a girl and have intimate body contact with her. do you like the thought of that? then you might be bi or a lesbian. the only sure way of finding out is actually trying it. ask a friend if you can kiss her, or gather the courage to ask a girl you don't know very well. it takes guts, but there's no way around it if you really want to know. if the kiss excites you and leaves you wanting more, then you can be pretty sure that you like girls. hope this helped.
2006-06-28 17:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can appreciate physical beauty without having sexual leanings that way. I suspect lesbianism is a bit more complicated than that. By the way, I'm a guy, but I have run into the same question before, she wasn't a lesbian either.
2006-06-28 17:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by aboukir200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at them in a sexual way then you have leanings to lesbian sexuality but dosnt mean your a lesbian,only when you go all the way and dont get sexually turned on by guys anymore then you are lesbian but if you still get turned on by guys as well then you are bisexual.
2006-06-28 17:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) you can be attracted to both men and women, you don't have to choose one or the other. That involves being bisexula or pansexual
B) you are a lesbian if you are not attracted to men, but are attreacted to women
C) just because you're checking out other women's buts doesn't make you a lesbian. if you're attracted to other women in a sexual way, that's another story.
D) lesbians are awesome and hot
2006-06-28 17:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that I am a guy but I can really help with this issue... Please let me help!!! I have explored bi-sexuality with several females.. I must say that the love shared between two weomen is the most beautiful thing in the world. Soft skin, on soft skin, ummm,ummm,umm. The times we had. I would love to revisit this and I am sure my wife would love to help as well.. Please get back to me.
2006-06-28 17:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
Are you attracted to men? (Physically, emotionally, mentally, sexually?)
Are you attracted to women? (Physically, emotionally, mentally, sexually?)
If you answer yes and no...you're straight...
If you ansswer yes and yes...you're bi
If you answer no and yes you're a lesbian...
If you just don't know, you're confused in which i would reccomend dating a guy and a girl...you know one date with eah... which one did you like better, or did you like them the same, or did you not like one of them at all...
good luck...
2006-06-28 17:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl,
There are too many guys out there that will take care of you..
Do not get involved in low trash.
2006-06-28 17:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's TOTALY a question (or as someone else put it, a LINE) that a lesbian would thow out there. How cute.
2006-06-28 17:02:38 · answer #11 · answered by partydudette52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋