2006-06-28 09:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by justincheff@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a close friend of mine that i have known her whole life was messing around with my now x-babies daddy.They now have a 8 month old baby together and i am deciding to talk to her again or not i understand we need to get along for the kids but to what extent.Recently we have talked and she said she was sorry for eveything
2006-06-28 10:16:17 · update #1
When you have to forgive .......for you!!! to rid yourself of the bitterness and to set yourself free but this is a very awkward situation. Well I guess you guys just have to talk but you don't have to be "friends". (Sometimes, I wonder about us women. Why would she want to mess with your ex. I guess another Denise Richards and Heather Locklear.)
2006-06-28 10:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is usually accepting the things that happened. Violation of children is unforgivable but that does not mean you hate someone. People do things that are wrong and often never realize how bad what they have done is. To get a positive from their wrong doing you need to try and understand what caused it and how to guard against it. Religion requires you forgive those that trespass against you as you want forgiveness but the real world is not as easy. Put negatives in your memory but do not let them make you bitter or hate full. Go forward in life and never let others place scars in your life.
2006-06-28 17:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always TRY to forgive. it doesn't mean you have to continue to be betrayed, abused, taken advantage of, or hurt any more. you can still forgive someone but choose not to be in a relationship with that person.
2006-06-28 16:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When should i not Forgive? I would not forgive family or friend that you have been caring about this family or friends when they screw you or got you in trouble or something you care for them ... i don't forgive them.
2006-06-28 16:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always forgive, but don't forget- as to let it happen again.
2006-06-28 16:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm....you should always forgive....but it doesn't mean that person who hurt you has to be a close part of your life anymore or it doesn't mean you have to trust them anymore...
2006-06-28 17:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by blue_bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in retrospect to what? family, lovers, neighbors? Details please...
2006-06-28 16:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by funandfancyfree3232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋