I always come across white men who only wanna date me because i'm black. they always say "Ive always been attracted to black girls"...thats nice, why does race have to an issue, cant u just date me because u like me? sex is sex no matter what color, it depends on the person not the race.
2006-06-28 09:37:53 · 21 answers · asked by flo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
First of all, amen to that. I am a white guy, so you will probably just brush me of in saying that, but I seriously mean it. People are people no matter the color of their skin or any other physical attribute. Guess what, all of your insides are the same color no matter what color the outside is. The differences that really arise are differences in physical attributes (which mean very little if any at all) and the differences in cultural influence. The culture of each group is what really makes each seem more different in the minds of the other groups. For many people, it is hard to get that in their thick skulled heads, but for me it is very obvious. See people for who they are, not for who they appear to be on the outside.
2006-06-28 09:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by The Shadow 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Because white women keep leaving them for black men so they want to find out what is so great about your race. ;) JK It really does depend on the person... I know this for a fact! But it may not be just the sex that they are talking about. Personaly I cannot stand to see pasty white skin, and I love the outstanding facial feature alot of black men have. That may have something to do with it too. If you got a booty you gotta know that has something to do with it! Just think about it as discrimination in your favor! Have fun with it! I wouldn't doubt it if they would kiss your feet if you asked them too.
2006-06-28 09:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by 20mommy05 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The answer is so simple I'm surprised you have to ask. You see some white men find that black is beautiful and they want to be with that beautiful black woman because maybe she has a sexy skin color that other women don't have or maybe he likes her bone structure or maybe her soft skin. I guess its something like picking out a dog (lab) black, yellow, chocolate,golden there all labs but different colors. I like Hawaiian and Latin women.
2006-06-28 09:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by wackydac 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am a white male and I am christian, rededicated myself to Christ around 8 months ago. Before I rededicated, I was attracted to other cultures, or races shall we say but not for the explicit purposes of having sex, so to speak, but because there is a natural tendency to go for different characteristics in people, skin color, vocal accents, hair colors, eye colors and shapes, heights, weights, breast size, etc. As a human we always want something that is different, (grass is always greener on the other side phase), once we have it we are stuck with the same problems that have caused us issues with previous relationships and the problems that society places on them (racist barriers), language barriers, and cultural barriers etc. I now know that what is inside is much more important than what is outside, morals, character, belief system, ethics, manners, stablility, etc. I began dating a girl after talking to her for several months and not meeting her, not even knowing what she looked like other than basic, height, weight, hair length, etc. but no physical photo, but I found out about who she is and what her beliefs are, how strong her convictions are, and her stability. It is so refreshing not to have someone accuse me of talking to other women, going out when I am not (even when I was of the world I cheated only one time and I am 37 years old, not bragging because that one time was one too many), not getting angry with me over petty things, supporting me not financially but emotionally and mentally. In the long run if you like someone because of who they are they become so much more attractive then physical qualities can be and in the long run when you are older and become what the world calls less attractive physically, you will still be beautiful on the inside if you are true to yourself!! So the short answer to your question is, if someone is interested in you to have sex with before you even know anything about them, then regardless of Color, you should say, thanks but no thanks.
2006-06-28 09:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Wired4spd 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
When they say that it means I have a fantasy I need you to fulfill.
Becareful that they only want you for sex. Take a long time to get to that point with them. They think it is like that jungle lust with us that we are unashamed women who like to have sex for what ever reason but I love you.
They don't understand though is once you go black, you never go back, lol.....There is a specialness to black women
2006-06-28 12:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Glynis 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Its probably just pure coninsidence. However, sometimes men want to explore in their sex and romance, its actually quite common in alot of men. Its nothing serious, just be smart when you pick your dates. Hell, who knows, if your up to it, you might actually like it, but its completely up to you.
2006-06-28 09:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by darkblade_kalki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that. Sort of a scorecard thing going on with a lot of them. Black...check. Asian...check. Latin...check. Not saying it's right, but guys are idiots sometimes.
2006-06-28 09:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Gatorz22 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
the aforementioned taboo, for sure.
plus, black women (in general) have a lot of physical and mental charateristics that any other color women (in general) don't have.
2006-06-28 10:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by lexington_scoundrel 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the residual taboo associated with mixed race intercourse.
2006-06-28 09:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by jlaidlawy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are just curious. Don't take personal. To me it could be a true sign of searching for a lifetime partner.
2006-06-28 09:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Pashur 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋