i am 16 now and i have a 2year-old daughter named Makailyn does that make me a HOE?

Question

people always ask is that my little sister and when i tell them no, i wonder what they thinking!

Answer 1

amen kja! It certainly doesn't make you a "hoe". Most kids your age are having sex. I know I was! I had my son when I was 19, and a lot of people passed some very ugly judgements about me. You weren't out there doing anything that the rest of your peers aren't doing, but now you have a baby. It's not a "bad" thing, it's a "life" thing. You accept it, take a hard look at yourself, and start making any changes you need to make so that you can be the best mama in the world to your little girl.

Answer 2

Why would that make you a hoe?
In the first place,its none of they're business if its your sister or daughter.
Just look them in the eye and tell them its your daughter Makailyn and don't worry what they think.
Even though you are young, I don't know your circumstances, but you probably didn't plan on becoming pg at such an early age, your daughter is here now, and if you love her and are trying to take care of her at your age, you are be admired, not condemned.
It is hard to raise a child as a single mother, so just do the best you can, and if you made a mistake by getting pg with her, so what? Just learn from it, take care of her, and do the best you can to give her a good life.
Don't worry about what those haters think, YOU know your'e not a hoe,your'e Makailyn's mommy, so let them think what they will, no one's perfect, I'm sure they have done things that were mistakes and I know they're not perfect, no one is.
You stand tall and never be ashamed of yourself or your daughter- have self-esteem- it takes a lot to succeed at being a single parent. Best of luck to you and Makailyn.

Answer 3

Dang Girl 16 !That Doesn't Make You A HOE Because If You Were A Hoe You Had LIke 3 Or More Babies You Had Her When You Were 14 Or 15 And 2 B A Adult U Have 2 B 18! But That Does'nt Make You A Hoe OK!

Answer 4

No, that makes you a mother, there's nothing wrong with starting young. Mary was only 14 or 15 when Jesus was born so that must be a good age to begin being a mother. You are lucky to start so young and your daughter is lucky to have you for a mom. Some people wait to long to find someone and before they know it it's to late like we're to old to get started. Good Luck to both you and Makailyn.

Answer 5

The only thing is makes you is an young mother.. and a young girl who did not make the best decisions in life... I was 16 when my son was born I got pregnant when I was 15, I don't consider myself a hoe... I considered myself a young girl, who was put into a womans place because of the actions that I took and the lack of mental, emtional and educational support that I didn't get from my mother and family.

Now if you are still sleeping around and whoring around, then yeah you might be a hoe... but to have a child at a young age does not make you a hoe... it just means you made bad decisions when you where young!....

Answer 6

nooooooooooo your are not a hoe because you have a baby and your young.... its not a big deal you just a young mommy so dont let that ruin the felling of enjoying your baby.... when people ask you is that your little sister you better smile and hold your baby close to you and say no "mam" or "sir" this is my daughter aint she gorgeous.......... be proud of being a mom is to late to think about the wrong stuff now she is here and she is your baby....you can be like sisters and so what?? you aint the only young mommy in this world you are not the first one or the last one.so the hell with what other people think you just make sure that you are a good mommy and take care of that baby... and try not to get full of babies not because is bad but because is better to be more mature to be able to handle motherhood the right way. and too many babies is hard to handle im sure you feel how hard is to handle just one,other than that you be happy with your little baby and dont worry about others might say or think.good luck honey.

Answer 7

No that makes you a mother, and a young girl who didn't understand how to have protected sex. Now, if you continue down that path....then yes, you would be considered easy. You wonder what I think?? It makes me feel sad that you've given up so much of your carefree years raising a child. I know the rest of your life decisions will now become more complicated.....getting an education, finding a good husband, having free time for your friends......But, it doesn't mean you can't have it all still. Your just going to have to try harder, and face a few more challenges. I know you must love your daughter, so what i said is no reflection on that. Be a good mom, grow into a strong woman and live a life that you can be proud of.

Answer 8

No, you just took a step before you were ready. That doesn't make you a hoe. A hoe is a garden tool. If you mean a whore, that is a person who has sex for money. You're not one of those, either. You just had one maybe before you were ready.
Time to grow up faster than you were ready, but you can do it.
Don't listen to what other people say. They only say things to hurt you so they will feel better with their lives. You know you're okay, have a little problem but better now for coming out of it.

Answer 9

Nope doesnt make you a hoe. You just made a really bad decision and you got pregnant from it. Yea when I meet teenage parents I dont think very good things about them. But Girl go be the best mom you can be to your little girl. Dont let what other people say get you down.

Answer 10

Being a mom is an excellent opportunity to begin thinking about the needs of your baby and yourself and to stop worrying about what other people think. There will be so many, many more times when people will question your judgement, offer unwanted advice, try to tell you how to raise her... All you have to worry about is doing your best according to your values, no one else's.

I'm sure there will be rude remarks even here...use them to practice your resolve that you are not a hoe, not baby raising a baby...just a young woman doing the best she can.