2006-06-28 09:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
surround yourself with loved one and friends that care...my gfs mom died last yr too and the most i can do is be there for her and help her get through it if i cud turn back the hands of time and bring her back i would if i could but since i cant the most i can do is jus be with her. and i try to do fun things or do things for her to take her mind off it like well play fight, go to movies, out to eat just something to keep her mind off it for as long as i can.
2006-06-28 09:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult situation. April 2005, my fatehr suffered from a stroke and was so close to dying. So believe me I see where you are coming from. My father was in hosipital for more than half of a year. What you need to do is surround yourself with friends and or boyfriend that care about you. Do fun and enjoyable things that you did before. But its okay to have a moment each day/ week/ month/ year where you just have to sit down and cry, but right after be around a loved one.
2006-06-28 16:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Leslie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I can think of to cope with a parents death is to give their life meaning by being happy and living your life to the fullest. Remember the good things about your dad, keep his pictures all over your home and don't forget you can still "talk to him" he just can't answer in the same way he use to. You cope by being happy and having a good life..... (((BIG HUG)))
2006-06-28 16:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear I lost my dad a few years back and the best thing I can tell you is go through the stages one at a time.
Just take it one day at a time. there is nothing wrong with grieve for your dad. You might go to his grave and put some flowers on his place.
Yu can talk with me anytime just use my email address on yahoo
2006-06-28 16:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom did the same, her dad died when she was very young, under 10. just be glad that you had the blessing to have those years with him. you were lucky. some people didnt have that kind of father figure in their lives..make sure you have loved ones who care about you by your side. good luck!
2006-06-28 16:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by macym7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie its a hard time i went through it six years ago with my mom you will never get over them being gone just hang in there spend time with the rest of your family every chance you get youll pull thriugh it but it will never be easy if you want to talk email me at loucards1fan@yahoo.com take care your friend
2006-06-28 16:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by loucards1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad died a year ago too. it will be a year July 10th. Jesus will get you through it. talk to him, let him help.
2006-06-29 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grieve over it...cry your eyes out....once you go through the process you will move on...it just takes time! Iam really sorry for your loss! Good Luck!
2006-06-28 16:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no good way of sayin "my father died" but do what's right think of the good thing and think of what your daddy would want!!
2006-06-28 16:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by playgurl pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my father terribly....i need a hug.
2006-06-28 16:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Guy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋