He just left a few weeks ago and I miss him very badly. But is it worth it to wait a year for him to come back? Yes, I love him very much. He could die or be injured though. There are so many guys here...
2006-06-28 09:06:40 · 11 answers · asked by kayla b 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I am not planning on leaving him. Whenever he contacts me, I show him support. The question just won't leave me alone so i thought if I get it out in the open, maybe it will go away.
2006-06-28 09:22:01 · update #1
Sounds to me like you don't really love him.
Maybe that's too harsh. Let me say this...Love is patient, love is kind, it doesn't keep records, it is not quick to anger.
If you love him, you will wait, if you love yourself and your feelings more, you wont.
It's blunt but it's the truth.
Your bf is doing something noble, just, and brave fighting to protect you, me, and everyone back home (regardless of what others may tell you or think).
2006-06-28 09:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,,, yes,,,yes,,, you gotta wait for him,,,,, what is one year when you may have the rest of your life with him.If he dies(God forbidding) he knew that someone was loving him. You will be the last person he sees. If he gets hurt....he'll have you to love still, You say you love him....those things should be the same as wedding vows....sickness and in health...till death do you part. So many guys here could also die or get injured. You knew he was in the military before he left... thats just part of the game baby....I am glad we all don't think that way....what would they be fighting for?
2006-06-28 16:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is worth it. Your boyfriend decided to make the ultimate sacrifice and to put his life on the line for others to have a chance at living in a democratic society. Canadian troops are there too, and our Men and Women (Capt Nicola Goddard, the first female Canadian Soldier to die in combat was recently laid to rest) are also making the ultimate sacrifice. By the way, our soldiers are all volunteers. He needs you to be their for him OK. Pray for him and hopefully he will get through this unharmed and you will both be better people for it.
2006-06-28 16:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be loyal. He is there for a good reason. I dont care what anyone says. If they werent their for a good reason then all our armed forces are dying in vein. He needs your support now more than ever. Your all he gots out there. I think you need to support him as much as possible
2006-06-28 16:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by jesus c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't miss him very much if you already want to find someone new. Not the kind of girl to be dating a soldier at all
2006-06-28 16:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion women must take it on to bring an end to war.
Because on both sides it is the women who finally have to live with the destruction of war.
2006-06-28 16:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who went to afganistan and i truly cared about him and loved him and when he got home we got married we been married for 4 years now. Ask yourself if you want to be single or want to be with someone.
2006-06-28 16:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait. I answered one of your other Q. what kind of life do you want? refer to my other answer. if he is a good guy then wait. there is not many good ones. if he is not so good then find a new one.
2006-06-28 17:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him dont **** with his heart. He needs to keep hi head straight to stay alive.
2006-06-28 16:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by dirk0069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u love him enough, you will hang on for him...dont worry, he should be ok if he takes care of himself, and it would be rather cruel to ditch him while he is away....and like i sed b4, if u care abt him enuf, u will wait forever for him :)
2006-06-28 16:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Terious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋