Just wanna know and another thing. When my b/f says hes gonna break my legs(when we do it) is he really gonna do that? If he does wont that be painful and wont i not be able to walk? HELP ME!!!!!
2006-06-28 08:57:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ha HA Ha break you legs, he was joking. Hun, do you really think you are ready when you dont understand that. Don't rush into something to just make him happy. Wait until you are ready. If he has a issue about it then he isn't meant for you. For the hurting issue, it does for some and not for others. I didn't hurt for me becasue my guy and i did foreplay before. Try doing foreplay before, to get your engines working. And yes sweetie, you will be able to walk. Sometime your legs maybe sore, but thats just because of the excerise involved in it. Honestly, if you are still in high school wait, wait for the right guy that will be there for a while.
2006-06-28 09:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! he will NOT break your legs when you 2 "do it". He's full of **** if he says he's gonna break your legs. On the other hand, if this is your first time having intercourse, then I would have to tell you, GO SLOW, and tell him to GO SLOW cause it very well may hurt a little and you won't bleed bad but you might spot a little and that's totally normal!!! It's NOT like a band-aid to hurry and rip off to get it over with and won't hurt as bad....NO WAY.... this is WAY different.
Some girls bleed more or less than others! My first time (age 15)it hurt a little but my guy went slow and he was careful with me and the whole thing. then I spotted for like 12 hours after! If your legs hurt, it's because your nervous and still nervous AFTER you DO IT and that's totally normal too!
Hope that helps! GOOD LUCK. USE PROTECTION!
2006-06-28 09:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go slow then it shouldn't hurt to much, some girls it doesn't hurt at all. i think for most it's just uncomfortable, especially if they've never been touched down there. you probably will bleed, but it's just a few drops that you won't even notice until your done with everything.if the guy is really concerned about your feelings and comfort, then that first time i suggest a lot of for-play to make sure you are relaxed and in the mood( because trust me nothing hurts more then if they try and start things down there and your not ready)
2006-06-28 09:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by tilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you think he will break your legs then you probably are too young to be doing it, but who am I to judge. To answer the question as others have said it will hurt (not bad and the rest of the experience will make up for it) and you should bleed, because he should have popped your cherry. Be careful,l make sure you are ready, and make it with someone special.
2006-06-28 09:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by SugarKisses22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your boyfriend wasn't kidding about breaking your legs you need to get a new boyfriend. The first time won't hurt as much as you think it will if you are with a sensitive and caring person who knows you are a virgin. Good luck hun
2006-06-28 09:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK either you're too young for this or you're joking.
Serious case, not all times do you hurt or bleed.... Also I think he is just using that as a metaphor for he's gonna give it to you good and hard. An ego thing....
2006-06-28 09:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will hurt and you will probally bleed. It really depends on your partner and you speaking up when it does start to hurt. My first time it did not hurt to much during sex but I was really sore afterwards, and I bleed for about 2 days not really heavy but just enought to stain my clothes.
2006-06-28 09:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by dorleejohnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol your first time it depends on how fast he goes if he goes in really fast of course its going to hurt but if he goes gently in then your just gonna feel a sting and you may bleed but it depends if he "popped" your cherry and i dont think hes really gonna break your legs lol
2006-06-28 09:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by BaBiiGrL YeLLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes it hurts... to some more than to others...and NO not every one bleeds.... you may have just alil spoting of blod after...
I had no blood... only spoting.. but my best friend had alot alot of bleading...
and no i hope he dont break your legs... im sure is just a saying..
Please make sure this is what you want no t what your b-f wants....
make sure you are carefull and have him wear a condom..
BUT I HONESTLY THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT... I DOUBT YOU ARE READY...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-28 09:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his pace. If he does it fast, then it's gonna hurt. And you are going to bleed because he's going to break your hymen. I don't think he's going to break your legs though.
2006-06-28 09:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by luvcry247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋