There's these guys at school theirreally fun ,but their really touchy one is my age he liked me i dont think he still does but he gets up in my face like he is goin to kiss me and touches me weird and the other guy is a year younger than me and he touches my butt and calls me babe and says things he really shouldnt i used to ignore it but i will be with them all the time next year because the one in my grade will be in all my classes and the one younger than me is in this choir that me travel in all the time and im a afraid all the other guys i hang out with will kinda be like this eventually Help me please
2006-06-28 08:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't let them just touch me by the way
2006-06-28 09:07:35 · update #1
Try to stand up to it, and tell them that you don't like to be treated or touched that way, surely if thats what you really want.
2006-06-28 08:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let anyone touch you when it's not wanted. It's actually an assault in the eyes of the law. Warn him sternly about this....and mean what you say. Friends is one thing.....but someone feeling you up is another. If you have to, tell your parents or a teacher at school....if you continue to let them touch you in an inappropriate manner, then they'll just continue to get more and more bolder, first thing you know is that they're sticking their hands in your shirt and/or your pants. Don't put up with that, do what you have to do.......best of luck to you..........
2006-06-28 09:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE THESE GUYS ARE JUST BEING JERKS, IF A GUY REALLY LIKED YOU HE WOULDN'T TOUCH YOU, OR SAY RUDE THINGS TO YOU, HE WOULD HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU. YOU HAVE TO RESPECT YOURSELF, I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD ALL OF YOU ARE, BUT THESE GUYS ARE JUST BEING REALLY WRONG TOWARDS YOU, JUST CUZ A GUY CALLS YOU BABE AND TOUCHES YOUR BUTT DOESN'T MEAN HE LIKES YOU, THAT MEANS TO ME THAT HE'S JUST GETTING WHAT HE WANTS AT THAT MOMENT, PLS BE CAREFUL, YOU SOUND YOUNG AND THERE IS PLENTY OF TIME FOR BOYS LATER, DON'T LET THEM FOOL YOU.. TAKE CARE JEN
2006-06-28 09:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by jslycat73@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when going on the trips, let the teacher know right now. and
if you feel uncomfortable with these boys with their hands on you you should bring it up to the principal, anyway.
it is wrong for ANYONE to touch your butt at anytime.
it would make me feel uncomfortable. and I feel uncomfortable for you. reading this.
I would definetly bring it to the attention of your mom and teachers and principal. they need to know what is happening and that this is uncomfortable to you. and tell the boys yourself that they are making you feel uncomfortable and to stop and that you will tell the teacher and dont be afraid to do so.
this could lead to something more, they will try to get you alone with no one watching,
DEFINETLY TELL NOW!!!!
2006-06-28 09:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever they are doing it doesn't sound respectful. Sounds like they're trying to play a gangsta music video with you. Make some other friends ... and perhaps talk to an older sister or an adult about this.
2006-06-28 09:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say something that will make his friends laugh, but he will be embarrassed. i dont know what to say because im a guy, but something along those lines should work if u want him to stop.
2006-06-28 08:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by J4m35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, why in the hell did you let him touch you in the first place, you need to report him or stay away, cause you can get into problems with this perv.
2006-06-28 08:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap the crap out of both of them and tell them your gunna sue them for sexual harrassment.
2006-06-28 09:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by mc_dugen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋