2006-06-28 08:55:12 · 10 answers · asked by hijays 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Cos when you c*m, your body's putting all it's energy into making a baby. To remedy this, you need to learn to separate your orgasms from ejaculation. Don't know much about it myself, so I'm taking my partner on a Tantra weekend, that's where it originated from, try www.heart-tantra.com, other than that, some people recommend exercising the pc muscles, the ones you contract to squeeze out that last bit of urine, though it's had mixed reviews. Hope that helped.
2006-06-28 09:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by bur667 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar experience for years. What I later realised was happening was that I had inhibitions surrounding sex with my partner at the time, mostly because we weren't compatible
Don't fret, though! We weren't compatible in very many ways and she had even more inhibitions around sex that were not mine.
She was very controlling in our relationship in ways I didn't recognise for years, and I never felt potent in the relationship, like an equal partner. This transferred into our sex life and it was like I'd run up a very very long hill each time we made it, and I too lost interest for a while, but mostly because of the unconscious incompleteness of it all.
You shouldn't despair though, because if this rings any bells for you and although she and I separated, you don't have to - why not try a really good relationship counsellor to check out any wrinkles in how you are together generally? A lot of problems in sexual relationships actually have their root elsewhere. You will know in your heart if this is ringing any bells.
I have now been in a relationship for 7 years plus and apart from a healthy post-coital shagged out feeling have no problems like before and the sex just keeps getting better (and so does everything else)!
Good Luck
2006-06-28 11:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Roger M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a tiring thing take a few minuets for a breathier. Why your not interested maybe you got your fill and just want to take a nap.
2006-06-28 09:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie back and have a massage, providing your partner is not like you. It will soon waken you again.
2006-06-28 09:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by smiler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is completely natural in a man.
Time fixes it each time.
2006-06-30 03:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what's your problem? Just cuddle up with your partner and go to sleep :)
2006-07-04 10:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good thing. You had your workout.
It's natural.
2006-06-28 09:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you fall off the saddle,get straight back on it!
2006-06-28 09:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably 'cos your lady is one ugly s.o.b. - either that or you're losing it man!!!
2006-06-28 17:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Im fcuked if i know... i aint gettin any
So stop complainin... *****
Maybe you can break me in?
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2006-07-03 09:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by El Mariachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋