it really gets in the way of our relationship at times. im very religious and would like him to be also but he is far from it. not atheist. hes just living his life in a bad way when hes smarter than that and im scared hes never gonig to give this lifestyle up. ive tried talking to him about it so thats out of the question. n e suggestions?
2006-06-28 08:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
He is an adult. You have chosen to relate to him. After stating your views, and he stated his, he has decided not to change. It is his choice.
You can stay and be a moral influence.
Or leave, if it is ruining yr life.
2006-06-28 08:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by helixburger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him. Pray fro the words he needs to hear so he can come to love God the way you do.
Then pray that GOD will reveal to you if this is the one HE has picked for you.
Sounds like the answer will be no so don't be surprised if you and your boyfriend end up breaking up.
Keep the lines of communication open with your boyfriend and help him understand your position without being pushy. Pushy never wins people over to GOD - only pushes them away.
2006-06-28 15:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that why the bible states that you should not marry a person that is not godly devoted to God....because problems will come as soon as you marry him....find a guy that has the same principles and same godly devotion to God as you have....and let him go....remember that he might promised to change and everything but for that, he will say that he will do it after you have married him....and that is not possible because you are going to be stick to him forever....unless of course you divorce him....but why go through all this when you can avoid it, not having him no more and not marrying him no more....anyway this is your life and hope you take a wise decision on this...
2006-06-28 15:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by israelmoya20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him. You can't make him change if he doesn't want to. Free will is his gift from God. He has to want to do better, or nobody else can force him to.
2006-06-28 15:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Billy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his occupation, if you don't mind me asking?
2006-06-28 15:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by CAUTION:Truth may hurt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋