My wife is 23...?

Question

She thinks she is too young too have a baby and we agreed to let her have an abortion.
A friend changed my view on abortion.
She is at the clinic and just a phone call will definitely stop her.
What should I do?

Answer 1

Call her, tell her not to do it, and then drive over there and get her out. Usually the paperwork, bloodwork, etc. takes quite a while, so even now it may not be too late.

More information:

Information on all aspects of abortion:
http://Abort73.com

A four-minute, must-see video on abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Photos of abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

Abortion stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm

Photos and facts about prenatal development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Abortion risks:
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, confidential help at a pregnancy center near you (referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Post-abortion help:
http://www.healinghearts.org
http://www.abortioninjury.com

Answer 2

At the end of the day, you and your wife have already discussed the abortion and agreed to have it. If she is already at the clinic, who are you to mess her around by trying to stop it. Having an abortion isn't something that people take lightly. You have to accept that the decision has been made. Deal with your change of heart but don't make your wife feel guilty for going ahead with it. It seems to me that you easily led if you can let a friend persuade you to change your views at the last moment. Grow up and be a man.

Answer 3

Talk to your wife again before she goes on to the next step. If you have doubts, always talk it out first so you won't have regrets later.

By the way, 23 is not too young. I was 20 when I got pregnant (I'm married) but even if it wasn't planned, it was one of the best things that has ever happened to my hubby and myself. We adore our baby, she has made our life so much more wonderful and fun and a challenge, but in a good way.

So talk it out first for sure. Know what you both really feel inside. If abortion is the right thing for both of you and you really feel it is the right thing with no doubts or apprehensions, then do it. BUt if it isn't, then give the baby a chance.

Goodluck!

Answer 4

If she feels that she does not want a child yet, that is her decision. It's her body and taking a child should highly be considered!
Her whole life will change, and also for a child it's the best if the mother (both parents off course) really WANT to have the child.

If she isn't ready, she isn't ready. Try to respect that and watch out that she will not get pregnant again for as long as she doesn't want to!

Additional:
After reading brevejunkie's post, I think you are just a lying bored teenager.
Thanks brevejunkie, for attending ;-)

Answer 5

OK, I'm confused. In this post, your wife is pregnant and you're unsure as to whether you should call the clinic and try to stop her from having an abortion. In another post, YOU are the one who is 12 and pregnant by a relative. Which is it?

Do you actually think people here are dumb/blind enough to believe you? The only thing I believe about you is that you're 12 years old, because that's how you're acting.

Answer 6

A lady of 23 years old is enough to bear a baby,maybe she was afraid because of stress that woman normally experience during pregnance period,she need a counselling on that.
A nd again try to call her to stop the abortion,try to pet her and console her.

Answer 7

what i think you should do is to call her and talk her out of it, before she does something she's going to regret. i didn't want to have a baby either I'm 20, but once you see that baby look up at you you'll forget everything you ever said. mine is 6 weeks old. stop her before she blames you in the future, asking you why you did not stop her then. talk it out with her, people have a lot of opinions on abortion. personally, i would not want to kill a human being. you are the husband, you have the right, it's half yours..

Answer 8

Don't let her do it because it will definitely come back to haunt both of you specially since you could of stopped it, there's never a right time to have a child. Don't be part of a murder, we do not have the right to take life away from anybody. Please don't let her do it, your conscious will never leave you alone and 23 is a good age plus she's your wife not a one night stand.

Answer 9

Dude, let her make the decision, if she feels she's too young then that means there are still things she wants to do for herself before she brings a child into the world and that's ok. It's smart if you ask me, and I'm speaking from experience. There's always plenty of time to have kids, no need to rush into it.

Good luck to you both.

Answer 10

Having just seen your later question - posing as a 12 year old who has been abused by a relative and is pregnant, i really think you should get the hell off this site and grow up!!!!

You are obviously a fake and it is sick and cruel to make a joke of things like this.

With luck, you are not married even!

Answer 11

call her. you obviously want the baby and realise abortion is wrong. 23 is not too young to have a baby. In fact it is ideal. I was 19 first time and 24 second time. Hurry up. Hope this doesn't come too late.