Is it alright to masturbate more than once a day?

Question

I'm a 16 year old girl, I've been masturbating fairly regularly for the past few years but recently I've been really horny all the time and I'm masturbating at least twice a day. Is that normal for a girl? I don't want to ask my friends incase they think I'm disgusting. I just seem to be constantly aroused for no real reason, I'm always wet in my knickers as well. What can I do to calm things down a bit, because I'm starting to get a little sore down there to be honest.

Answer 1

You will get worn out, and maybe some chafing – but nothing else bad will come of this.

Now, if you are doing this compulsively – like you feel anxious if you don’t do it, or if you are doing this as a means of managing your anxiety, or if it you are bothered by how much you are doing this but you still can’t seem to stop yourself and not simply as a means to experience pleasure then you may have a problem – but as long as sex has not become a coping strategy – a means of decreasing anxiety and dealing with the world – then you are good.

You aren’t a nympho, what you are healthy.

Just because other women don’t admit to wanting sex, or wanting sex as often as you do, does not mean that they are healthy or normal.

You may not be statistically normal, but you are healthy.

Which do you think is better, wanting sex and saying that you do not, or wanting sex and saying so?

you are completely normal. In fact not only are you normal, but you are lucky. There are lots of girls who can’t get wet enough.

First – more wetness is always better than less wetness, it just means that you are turned on and excited. Besides, sex when you are dry, or too dry is no fun, sex when you are wet, or extraordinarily wet is great.

Next – you don’t have to worry because guys LOVE it when you get wet, and the wetter the better. All you have to do is tell as guy that you are wet, and they get excited. You can even use it flirtatiously – by telling a guy that you get very wet... trust me they will love it.

I know what I am talking about – because I too get VERY wet... in fact I get so wet. So often that I generally don’t wear panties – I have found that it is MUCH better to have a little extra air flow than it is to have to wear a pair of completely soaked panties – when I don’t wear panties I almost never leave a mark on my dress, but when I wear panties I almost always do – because the panties stay wet longer. You will have to decide what you want to do about panties yourself – but don’t feel like you have to wear them just because.

Answer 2

Hi Caira. Yes, it's absolutely fine to masturbate more than once a day as long as you're not doing it to the exclusion of your other daily activities! A lot of women masturbate daily, or more than once a day, just most people don't talk about it. If you're getting a bit sore down there you're maybe rubbing a bit too hard or you need to use a bit more lubrication - try some KY jelly. You could wear a panty liner to stop your knickers getting wet all the time, I have to wear them every day for the same reason.

Answer 3

As a guy, I'm not an expert on this. It's the most natural thing out there, I do it plenty of times a day and feel great and If you like it, keep on doing it. Try changing techniques or adding or changing lubricants.

I'm 15 so that actually really turns me on that you do it a lot a day.

Answer 4

Yes, it's normal. Most people do it more then you know, but don't talk about it. If people opened up more about it, there wouldn't be anyone wondering. I myself masturbate almost daily and every session, I do it about 3 times...I'm also wet all the time too. It's alright.

Answer 5

As I am a man I cant really answer for you, all I know is that I sometimes masturbate 3 times a day and I feel fine for it, a little tired but healthy.

Answer 6

Hi, hope your having a nice day. it is perfectly normal for girls and boy to masturbate multipule times a day! it's where your growing up and starting to get qurious about sex. I was the same way when i was your age but worst,,try 4 to 8 times a day!! lol really!! but it is perfectly normal for girls to ast like this too...smile

Answer 7

Well I have the same problem but I have to remember I can not do this everyday. I then talked to my GYN and he told me it is hormonal in balance. So now I am on some natural stuff and it has helped me a lot. Ask your doctor it might just be a in balance. Also use lubricant with no perfumes and non latex toys this heps reduce inflammation down there as well.

Answer 8

I remember those days! Didn't hurt me any, STILL doing it, thankfully, though I've slowed down a wee bit (well, I DO have a husband, now, to help out). Use pantyliners to keep the knickers dry to help keep down the risk of infection. Try not to rub so hard -- you can get the "O" without all the soreness if you do it right, and you don't want to get hurt, so try to find a lighter touch on yourself. And at 16, keep doin' it for yourself for a while -- yes, I'm old enough that I'll harp about "safe sex"! And, yes, "old folks" still DO LIKE IT. LOL!

Answer 9

ya it really is. been doing is provided that i become like 12 and im 16 now. i ever masturbate an same day I easily have sex. message me if u favor extra information. yet ya, i understand men who do it like 2 - 4 cases an afternoon usual extremely a lot and of their overdue 20's lol.

Answer 10

I see nothing wrong with it. If it feels good, do it. I masturbate like once a day and I am in my 40's. Go for it girl and have fun. Let's keep it "our" little secret! :)

If you are getting sore, remember,,,,hurts so good!!!