I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20, we have been together for 3 years. we live together and get along perfectly . i am an established human resources director in a fast growing company, he is a farmer and already owns more farmland in the area than people twice his age and family owns and operates a multi million dollar seed company , what i am tryin to say is , we are established. so my question is, with us already being so mature and well rounded , is getting married now too soon?
2006-06-28 08:18:10 · 10 answers · asked by whit_hbk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say no, but whats the rush. Until you are ready to have kids, why bother.
2006-06-28 08:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe age should be a factor. If you KNOW that you two will be in it for the long run, then I'd say go for it.
Love shouldn't be just one factor, nor established jobs. Just because you can afford to get married doesn't necessarily mean you are ready. There's many factors that go into marriage, I think.
Only you both will know if you are ready.
2006-06-28 08:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can say when the right age to marry is (well 15 is way too soon) but you are both legal adults, and judging by your description it sounds like you have your life in good order. If you feel like marriage would heighten your life experience together, go for it.
2006-06-28 08:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not. If you are in love and both ready for the next step then you are not too young to get married. I, too, married at 21 and have enjoyed every minute of it.
Mostly, do what your heart tells you. If someone comes along to try to negate your feelings, they are not worth your time.
FYI...Statisics and polls rarely take into account true love and/or other circumstances of the failed relationship.
2006-06-28 08:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait a couple more years. Things could change and it may not work and you'd end up getting divorced. You're still both pretty young.
2006-06-28 08:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him go for it but make sure he's the one you dont want a heartache. plus if your already living together why not get the benefits from it
2006-06-28 08:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by teaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so well establish whats the hurry give your self time to grow .
2006-06-28 08:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by helen r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! If you two love each other and want to be together forever and ever....then GO FOR IT!!!!!
2006-06-28 08:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yepper...go for it if it suits you but neither of you are ready...and statistics show high school sweet hearts rarely make it....
2006-06-28 08:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married - have a brood of kids.
be happy :)
2006-06-28 08:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋