My hubby,his 10yr son treat my deceased daughter's?
son,mean and hateful.My hubby and I have had my daughter's son since he was 5 months old.(He's now 6yr).My hubby's father made the comment to the 6yr old a few days ago that he needed a rock tied around his neck and thrown into the lake.I told my husand what his father said and he said his father would not say that.I ask my huddys son and he said yes and I made him tell his Dad.Hubby always says I'll take care of it.but dosent.I want to take care of this,but how? I want to add I DO NOT let the 6 yr old stay at hubby's parents.I keep him away from them.But sometime maybe 1 or 2 times a month my husband will drop kids off to do a job but thats if Im at work.They treat the 10 yr old like gold he has 3 ply station ect...Step son treat him mean. 6yr old dosent have a father either but my husband.He calls me Mom but I tell him all about his angel Momma.I can only forsee a divorce bc Him and His family will never love the lil one like I do.
2006-06-28 08:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU SHOULD PRAY THAT THEIR HEARTS BE SOFTENED TO THE LITTLE ONE OR THAT GOD GIVES YOU THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE. THE BIBLE SAYS "AND THIS I SAY IN CONFIDENCE WHICH WE HAVE IN HIM: THAT IF WE ASK ANYTHING ACCORDING TO HIS WILL, HE LISTENS TO AND HEARS US. AND IF WE KNOW THAT HE LISTENS TO US IN WHATEVER WE ASK, WE ALSO KNOW THAT WE HAVE THE REQUESTS MADE OF HIM" 1 JOHN 5: 14-15........ I ALSO RECOMMEND ROMANS 5: 1-5 (THIS HAS BROUGHT ME THROUGH MANY TOUGH TIMES) ........... I WILL PRAY FOR YOU ALSO AND I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST OF YOU.
2006-06-29 05:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Your grandson is family like the others. They have no rights in anyway to talk hateful to him. You need to do something about it very soon. If not, then he will grow up thinking thats how he should treat others.
Talk to him, and have him to tell your his feelings. He don't need to bottle it up at the age he is. Tell him, he is love and always have you to come too. If there noone else for him.
Your husband and his son are nothing about bullys. Your husband wants to lean on deaf ears, cause he is to chicken to tell his father what he thinks.
They will always get what coming to them, for what they do onto other ppl.
2006-06-28 15:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the six year old who will grow up feeling worthless his entire life because of these people. It isn't worth staying in this marriage if it will forever change the way the 6 year old perceives himself.
2006-06-28 15:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone made a comment like that about my grandchild, I would go ballistic and go off on that person and I don't care who they are. I would take my baby and leave and everyone else can kiss my ***. No way would I stay with these other idiots.
2006-06-28 15:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny how WE ( meaning me included) as people can ignore all the signs that given to us. Pray about it and seek some counseling with husband first. Then if that doesn't work ....holla'! C U later.
2006-06-28 15:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take that child and leave. His wellbeing should be MORE important to you than anything in this world. Your father-in-law threatened that child's life. How could you NOT do something about that? What makes me sad is that you have not done anything to stop it.
2006-06-28 15:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away from these hurtful despicable wretched sorry excuses for human beings as fast as possible. This makes me ill.
2006-06-28 15:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This poor baby has No one to stick up for him but you.. Save him now, he needs you and the love you have to give.. I was mistreated by my grandparents and hate my family now for not helping me or sticking up for me then.. He Needs You!
2006-06-28 15:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by 9929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋