Do you think that that is inappropriate?We hear stories of what happens in strip clubs all the time. Married women how do you feel about your husbands in strip club and what do you think this says about a man.
2006-06-28 08:07:43 · 21 answers · asked by mary07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if they are in any relationship i dont think its right.for one i feel it states that they would rather pay someone to see it and not be able to touch it (at least around here they cant) then see yours..i wouldnt put up with it.bottom line.how does he feel about you going to a male strip club..(not many exist around ) wish they did though..all is fair in love and war right....you deserve better...
2006-06-28 10:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by huntress2800206 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost a year and dated my husband 5 years before we tied the knot. He went to a strip club on occassions. Maybe 3 times max. It didn't bother me because I trust him and I know he won't get out of hand. Plus I knew all the friends he went out with.
But for his bachelor party, I was upset. Because I didn't do one, instead I had a bridal luncheon with some girlfriends. He brought along three girl friends from his work and a bunch of guys, that turned into a party instead of an actual bachelor party. They all went to a strip club together and drank and although I know nothing happened, it bothered me that he didn't invite his other girl friends that I knew or my sisters. Afraid he would have to hold back if they were there with a watchful eye.
So it depends on the situation. And depends on the guy, if he goes wild and is married or in a serious relationship, I'd be worried. It would definitely change my outlook on him and I would definitely give him grief if he ever went to a strip club with his guy friends again. I think it has to do with trust. If you trust the guy, it wouldn't matter where he went because you would be on his mind one time or another, and he'll control his behavior without even realizing it.
2006-06-28 15:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 and have been married to my husband for over 4 years. We went together to a strip club, with another couple. I tried to be the cool wife, who was gonna have fun with him. But still to this day, it hurts. Those places are crazy, and the things they do are crazy now. To me it is almost like cheating. I know my husband couldn't of been able to stand another man doing things to me, like these women.
Whats funny is my husband ended up getting jealous of what the women were doing to me. I was drunk, and we had a lap dance together. The girl was all over me, taking off my shirt ect... He was afraid I would leave for a woman. He He. Not a concern. But I do think it is cheating. There is no need for a man to go there, if they are in a relationship! Don't put up with it. Good luck..:)
2006-06-28 15:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 14 years, and my wife is fine with me going to strip clubs. Why, becasue I keep it in my pants. I like to look at naked women, my wife included, but a little variety is nice once in a while. Oh yeah, most of the stories you hear are just that stories. Go with him and you'll see how it really is. Women taking money from suckers for nothing. Pretty simple really.
2006-06-28 15:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you think is a serious relationship he does not see the same way. Offer to go with him once, strip club stories are not what they are cut out to be.
2006-06-28 15:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying. There are some men who does take it too far, then slipping dollar bills in a strippers thong. But there men out there who love their wives, that no matter what the strippers look like. He would go home back to her.
If your marriage is on steady ground, then don't worry about it.
A real man knows coming back home from a club. He will love his wife, be with his wife, take his wife to bed and make love to her. Knowing she is the one , he wakes up with and lay down to sleep with.
That she is the one, who he will spend his lifetime with.
2006-06-28 15:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys. They go to just watch and they cannot really do anything, because they can get toss out.
Those girls get hit on all the time and they are not after your man, trust me, they are working and all they are interest in is the cash and not a relationship.
You don't need to be concerned if your husband comes back to you every night.
Be confident... at least he is not cheating!
2006-06-28 15:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I question whether a guy should be in a strip club when he's single, let alone after he is married ...
2006-06-28 15:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by WN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an occasional thing, perfectly fine. As in going out with the guys once every few months. If more than once a week, serious problem.
2006-06-28 17:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by 7FAM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man has been to a couple since we have been together. Of course it was for a special occasion. Friends getting married, but it doesnt bother me. I know where we stand in out relationship and I trust him. Now if it was something he was dong all the time then there would be a problem but if its to celebrate then who cares.
2006-06-28 15:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋