Okay I'm straight, I love guys and enjoy doing stuff with them, but I think I've hit a curious point in my life. I'm almost 16. Anyways I sometimes get turned on by one of my friends and she has experimented with chicks before and she said she could see herself doing that with me and it didn't bug me at all...it kind of turned me on? Help Me Please!!!
2006-06-28 08:05:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
go for it!
you don't need help, just a little experiment!
2006-06-28 08:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by annabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I could have written this at age 16. Seriously. Anyone who thinks that 16 is too young has forgotten what it is like to be 16. Or is just incredibly stupid.
I think you're at least bisexual. Or bi-curious.
Either way, when you get turned on by girls, you're not straight.
But hey, take a deep breath, and calm down a little. Being queer isn't the end of the world, and worrying about it won't change it. Do some reading (my local library was a godsend at age 16, there was some really great and underrated smut there ;-), do some thinking, maybe do some praying (if you're the religious type) and take life as it comes. Enjoy yourself, reflect on your emotions, but don't panic. Try things if you like, or don't if you don't want to.
Just remember to breathe. If you stop breathing, then we really have a problem here.
2006-06-28 13:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i love ladies and i also feel the same. I actually hooked up with a a friend of mine once, just to see what it was like. A few years have passed and after him i haven't been involved with anyone else. I still wonder if that makes me curious, bi, or gay. In any case, i feel more attracted to women and only see myself turned on by a womens figure. I think maybe you should test the waters. If your comfortable the first time, then learn about who you are and what you want.
2006-06-28 08:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Audible Assistance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to try new things. I have never been in that situation, but I have been in a few relationships where there were 2 girls and only me. It wasn't what I expected, But I did have to try it just to say that I've been there. I would suggest that you do the same. You never can tell what you like till you've tried it.
2006-06-28 08:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by rednck_soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT??!?!?!?!!???!!
GO FOR IT???!!?!
"There is nothing wrong with expirimenting with girls"
"You don't need any help. Nothing wrong with being bisexual"
"expierment....whats the worst that could happen?? "
"explore all the possibilities of your sexuality "
THIS GIRL IS A CHILD!!!!!!!! SHE SHOULD NOT BE DOING ANYTHING LIKE THIS WITH BOY OR GIRLS!!!
YOU PEOPLE THAT SAID THE ABOVE THINGS ARE SICK AND DEMENTED.
IF THIS PERSON WAS AN ADULT I WOULD NOT FEEL SO STRONGLY ABOUT THIS, BUT SHE IS A CHILD!!!!
2006-06-28 12:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you with what? You're curious, that's all. It's quite natural at your age. If the feelings you have for other girls gets stronger then you'll have to revist the issue, but until then do whatever you want.
2006-06-28 10:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not weird, it's just playing around. keep in mind, though, that you run into the same problems fooling around with female friends as you do with male friends. personal issues, jealousy, infatuation, STDs, etc.
go in with your eyes open. it's hard when you're completely overwhelmed by hormones and lust (see, i still remember!) but just don't walk in blind. sex is fun, yeah - but it's hardly ever simple. just spend five minutes to think about consequences beforehand.
five minutes, ok? that's not too long. you can manage five minutes, right?
good luck!
2006-06-28 08:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by kwanyin_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your bliss, but know that everything has consequence attached, good or bad.
Everything happens to advance your growth in some manner. Be happy with whatever choices you make - it is that easy and that difficult. Talk's cheap!
2006-06-28 08:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by CHARLES S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kinda help do you need?? Just go for it. Life it all about doing what makes you happy. It would be a diff story if you were bothered by it, but instead, it turned you on...Go for it!
2006-06-28 08:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with expirimenting with girls. I am straight, but I have alot of gay and lesbian friends, they seem very happy! Do what feels right to you! Good luck
2006-06-28 08:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help??!! help with what??!! we need more people who are open to exploring their sexuality there are those who might try to label you and say you are bi-curious or that you are "in the closet" but who cares do whatever makes you feel good as long as its safe sane and consensual and have fun
2006-06-28 08:10:29 · answer #11 · answered by timore_nessun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋