I am 20 and still a virgin, but i'm ready to make love to my boyfriend of 6yr. what should i expect?

Answer 1

Blood, other than that expect nothing and you will never be disappointed.

Answer 2

Your should expect alittle pain the first couple of times as the hymen is torn. Some precautions would be to use lubrication to ease the pain from friction and unless you are on the pill and take it everyday like you are suppose to I would make certain your partner uses a condom. Remember to relax, focus on what you are feeling and mentally picture what is happening to maximize the experience. Also don't expect it to be very long lasting for his first time. The more frequent you two engage in intercourse the longer he will last but the possibility of friction burns increases. Also don't do oral with your partner prior to intercourse unless using a condom, the bacteria will most likely give you a yeast infection or even a urinary tract infection, and absolutely do not allow him to do anal then vaginal intercourse, the possibility for toxic shock is too great. I hope this information helps and that you enjoy yourself.

Sincerely,
SSG, Infantry
Ramadi, Iraq

Answer 3

You should expect to be disappointed. First you should not have a boyfriend, much less one for 6 years and only be 20. I would not expect this to be more than a roll in the hay and a poor one at that. Anything that you want to do well requires practice, and despite what either of you might think about yourself and you skills, they will hardly serve you well. Having sex is a personal decision on both your part. Being good at sex requires learning, practice and effort. There are lots of good books and videos that can help and it also helps to have a willing and considerate partner that wants to learn and improve.

Answer 4

Im not trying to scare you or anything, but tell him to take it slow. The first time it is going to hurt a little, because he is breaking the hymen (the tissue). You may spot. Some people do others do not. You may be sore afterwards. Usually the frist time, you will not enjoy it, because of the pain. Make the experience a memorable one and make sure you lose it to the right person, because this is something that you are always going to remember. After about the third time you will be able to enjoy it. Overall. tell him to be gentle, if you want him to stop or slow down, tell him. Make sure to BREATHE!!!

Answer 5

About 20 seconds....

Answer 6

that is really touching. You should expect a little pain, a little blood, and a lot of pleasure, It will be okay my first time was horrible but I'm sure that if you and your boyfriend love one another enough to have waited that long it will be very special. Congratulations!

Answer 7

A wedding band before the sex. You waited this long, what is wrong with getting married.

And if he or you is not ready for marriage, you are not ready for sex, and probably not right for each other. Six years is long enough to know if you are going to get married.

Answer 8

Nothing, just enjoy it with no expectations! Let nature take its course and enjoy each other! It will be special just because it is your first time. Make sure you are protected and make sure you are in a comfortable place so you can take your time.

Answer 9

your still a virgin at 20 thats very rare its good that you have waited no matter what advice anyone gives you or what anyone says you should be proud of yourself.your first time is a little weard but it gets better trust me

Answer 10

Probably not much to scream about... If he's a virgin too you might want to get a book, something with illustrations.
Have fun!

Answer 11

Well ur going to have sex so wear protection and maybe u will feel a little pain. Just go with it and u will be fine