He deny's it but I know there not to fond of me but they still are courjal and talk to me but they are very standoffish im trying to keep my cool but most of the time I avoid being around them when ever possable but for the holiday's I have no choice what should I do?
2006-06-28 07:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by unique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women are such bitches sometimes...sorry to curse. If I were you, for the holidays get all dressed up and act like they are freaking awesome. Just smile and laugh and act like you're high on life. Chances are, no matter what you do they are going to be mean...that's just what women do...but this way at least you will be having a good time. If all else fails, tell them to sit on their middle finger and spin.lol
2006-06-28 08:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. Don't let it affect how much you see him. I would still spent time with him whenever he invited me somewhere. If not, you are letting their behavior come in the middle of your relationship. Just be as nice as possible and try to ignore it and focus on him.
My best friend has a boyfriend now for 6 years. His family loved his ex and did not terst her very well. It took a while but she is so sweet so eventually they warmed up and now love her!
I would give it some time and if this guy is worth it, you will have to put in an effort. Eventually they may warm up and see how sweet you are too! Good luck and hang in there!
2006-06-28 08:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to define "females in your boyfriend's life" for this question to to be clarified. Female friends? Female family members? Mother? Sisters? Aunts? Cousins? Ex-girlfriends?
Without that information -- one more question... Is there some REASON that they shouldn't like you? Any event that would cause it? If not, you could just be being paranoid or they're stand-offish because they don't know you. You mentioned they were being "cordial" to you, which means they're making an EFFORT to be polite -- which is actually something. You said the boyfriend denies that they don't like you, and the attempt to be cordial to you -- but you avoid THEM. Look to your behavior and assess that, as well. If you're avoiding them, they may be picking up on YOUR reaction to THEM, and therefore pulling back as well.
2006-06-28 08:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Shadycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start letting him get a piece of that twice a day and make sure you make the moments memorable. You will be on his mind 24-7 and he will talk about how awesome you are all the time, and the females will understand that you are a sweet butter pecan and deserve respect and they will give it to you instead of being jealous
2006-06-28 08:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating the females in your boyfriends life or are you dating your boyfriend?? Who cares what they think or if the are fond of you or not. How old are you??
2006-06-28 08:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ignore it
they're probably jealous
they'll have to get used to the fact that he wants you around
2006-06-28 08:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by samsonjedi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less if they liked me or not. All that would matter to me is if he likes me.
2006-06-28 08:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋