I am just wondering what you would do personally. Thanks.
2006-06-28 07:57:37 · 19 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes
she deserves to know
2006-06-28 08:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by samsonjedi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, for some reason guys find strip clubs relaxing. Now if ur friend's husband was doing someone else then you should definately tell her. but stripping is just basically looking and a little touching, I'd take my friend to a male strip club to get her even wit her husband though.
2006-06-28 15:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Narcissa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her to go with you sometime maybe to the mall or something when you know the husband is at the strip joint. Go into the lot saying you want to check on something. And if the vehicle is there she will know.
I knew my ex was going to them with guys from work. But when he tried to lie to me about the visa card. Wrong answer!!! I wasn't happy about the club either but I had two little ones at home. Not working outside the home of the time. Hours away from family.
2006-06-28 15:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would advise the friend to fill out an application and acquire a job at the strip club he frequents and when he comes in for a lap dance give him a discount and let her see for herself. Do not get in the middle or you will ultimately be the bad guy. Domestic tranquility is as volital as Domestic Violence. Be safe and let her see for herself and then the problem is where it is supposed to be between him and her. Good Advice.
2006-06-28 15:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I definitely would. Strip clubs are wrong and as a wife I would be hurt and upset if my husband felt the need to look at naked women that he has no right to be looking at! You owe it to your friend to tell her.
2006-06-28 15:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by halocraze86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she doesn't know? Maybe she does know and it doesn't bother her?
If it were me and my best friend, I'd tell her. But, if I couldn't find a way to tell her, I'd make sure she was with me as we casually drove by the strip club while he was there.
2006-06-28 15:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by CountryGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is coming from a guy, but you should stay out of it. Maybe that is his time away from the wife and kids for him to loosen up. Give the guy some space and let him have some fun. Marriage is supposed to be a prison.
2006-06-28 15:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell her ... I would just happen to take her by there one night when he was there too. If you get involved by telling her without proof she make take it the wrong way and wonder who to believe, and you would end up stuck in the middle. Show her what he is doing and he can't get out of it.
2006-06-28 15:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by emaynard28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he seeing someonne else? Does she ever say they are really struggling financially? Is he an alcoholic? Yes, it is important to tell a friend if something he is doing truly something that will hurt her, but be careful. Sometimes they shoot the messenger!
2006-06-28 15:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course- that's your girl! Tell her. She might not care, some women don't. But either way she has a right to know. And put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you want her to tell you?
2006-06-28 15:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would. I would want someone to tell me if my husband was. It could come back on you, as to, you knew, but didnt say anything. Good luck hun!
2006-06-28 15:00:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋