but i she didn't invite my fiancee. Her and him don't like each other but isn't it rude that she didn't invite him? Is it right to tell her that I am not going to be a part of it? We use to be best friends!
2006-06-28 07:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by Poptart_fingers~!~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She and he don't like each other. Not "her and him don't"..... He doesn't like her; she doesn't like him. They don't like each other. English is not that hard.
Anyway, a good many weddings limit the guest list to married couples. It would be good form to include fiancees, but if she has excluded ALL boyfriends, girlfriends and fiancees, then you don't have much to complain about. (Technically, you are partnered with a groomsman......) If, on the other hand, she is only excluding YOUR fiancee, then you need to talk to her.
Yes, it is HER BIG DAY and if she is a Bridezilla, then you may be in for a chance to make a big decision. Is it worth your friendship or not ? Because that is going to be the price.
2006-06-28 08:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point No.one million The get dressed she picked out was once manner far more than you would manage to pay for & she knew this."She knew what approximately you" Did you certainly refuse "DON'T BUY I CAN NOT AFFORD?" I do not consider so. Point No.two You instructed her you could must make repayments. Even when you did not deliver any precise quantities or time period at the repayments. But did you certainly mentioned " I WILL NOT PAY YOU?" THE ONLY PROBLEM IS YOU WENT WITH HER. WHICH SHOWS YOUR INTENTION OF SHOPPING. THEN YOU MADE A STATEMENT THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE PAYMENTS THOUGH YOU DID NOT GIVE ANY CERTAIN AMOUNT OR TIME FRAME. I consider if this example is going in to courtroom you're going to must pay even you employ get dressed or no longer. BUT BEING A FRIEND SHE MUST KNOW THAT YOU CAN NOT AFFORD A COSTLY DRESS EVEN FOR HER WEDDING THEREFORE SHOULD NOT PICK SUCH A COSTLY DRESS IF SHE IS A REAL FRIEND. If I am a pass judgement on(which I am no longer)I will say pay 50% to each. Hope this may solve this trouble if no longer do not get indignant.
2016-08-31 09:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately your friends wedding day is just that, HER wedding day. It isn't easy when your friends and your loved ones don't get along, but everyone has to make sacrifices. And by not being in her wedding to support your fiancee then you are making the decision to create tension between the two of you. Sorry, but suck it up, go without your fiancee if necessary, stand up in the wedding, and have a good time.
2006-06-28 08:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with your fiancee.I would not be part of the wedding !
Tell your friend to grow up and to build a bridge and get over it.What would you rather lose ? A friend or future husband ?
My niece is in the same situation.She is the brides maid but the bride has been ignoring her and being very rude to her.The wedding is next month and she already has the dress,otherwise she would back out.
2006-06-28 09:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the best of friends it could go either way. It is her wedding and she shouldn't have to tolerate anyone she doesn't like. Would you want to invite someone that gets under your skin to your wedding?
2006-06-28 08:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the brides choice who she wants, and she doesn't like him. I would be foolish for her to invite someone she doesn't like to one of the biggest events of her life. It is up to you if you want to attend. If you feel uncomfortable about going then politely decline.
2006-06-28 08:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Plano G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ur fiancee..if he can't come don't go...maybe she is not really ur bestfriend..he is going o be ur husband one day. don't go without him.
2006-06-28 08:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by BellA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋