My friend has a boyfriend that is her ex-brother in law. She thinks it is ok because the relationship between him and her sister has been over with for 23 years. some people in the family are for the relationship and some are not. I have mixed emotions about it. Help so I can give her answers.
2006-06-28 07:52:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they're happy then that's all that matters.
2006-06-28 07:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to first speak to all events concerned (besides for the ex-female friend now relationship the pal - allow the pal do this) and allow them to realize your matters. This is your tremendous day and also you don't want an oz. of drama happening. If all events concerned wholly agree one hundred% that they're going to now not motive any issues with the opposite and are confident that they are able to manage themselves maturely within the concern, then allow her include him. That manner they have all been spoken to prematurely and so they realize (particularly the ex-female friend) what habits is to be anticipated will have to she be allowed to wait. If you rather do not feel it is going to paintings, invite the pal best and ensure to not go away room at the invite for # of visitors. You could have the RSVP card learn: We have reserved ___ spot(s) for you at our marriage ceremony. Put a handwritten #a million within the house in order that we could him realize underneath no not sure phrases that he's to not convey a visitor.
2016-08-31 09:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how some people would have a problem with it, but I would tell her to go ahead and have the relationship with him. Life is too short and you can't make everybody happy! Just be there for support and for a shoulder if she should happen to need it.
2006-06-28 07:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by emaynard28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this situation is sticky no matter how much time passed. Some things time doesnt heal. if it were me I would not invest in the relationship
2006-06-28 07:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are boys and gurls are gurls and I see no reason that life mates should be restricted by titles as long as the law does not prohibit the relationship. put yourself in her shoes and he was your life mate. What answer would you want or would the answer matter to you as it does to her?
2006-06-28 07:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋