see she is very old fashioned and i fight wit her all the time i dont want 2 but she pushs the problem way to hard! I dont even go over to my grandma's and grandpa's house anymore... H.E.L.P.!!!!
2006-06-28 07:50:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
i sure wasnt clear that ummm she gets into my backpack for all the wrong reasons thats another reason i dont go over there...She gets into my business that doesnt need 2 be messed with...i try to do the things she likes which is going to garage sales and all that stuff i try everytime but no. i hear say that some stuff i wear she doesnt like and she buoght those clothes awhile ago and wear them and BAM she blames me for wearing whatever she bought me!
2006-06-28 08:09:07 · update #1
i got my answer...the last 1...bye bye
2006-06-28 08:26:18 · update #2
OLD FASHION IS THE KEY, i dint know how old she is but understand what era she came from, how she was raised, every thing was just as hard then as it is now different but the same,I think that is called a oxymoron,you dint really need to fight with her because you both will never agree with each other, because you both are different individuals not the same, dint miss out on being with them listening to them because there will be a time they wont be there,if you love them change the argument into conversation always give both a hug and a kiss before you leave no matter what the situation is and always tell them you love them, GO SEE THEM before too late.
2006-06-28 08:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your grandparents are two generations apart from you:
(1) with your fashions (bright colours, low jeans, bikins, etc.)
(2) with your ideas (what's right, what's wrong, religions, customs, values)
(3) with your liberalism and new morality (late nights, sex before marriage, foul language, etc.)
(4) with your tastes (in movies, expensive items, friends, candies, magazines, etc.)
(5) and careless concerns about respect for the elders.
But when they were your age, they were also very different from their grandparents.
So I suggest that you take more notice of your grandparents - know what they like, what they do not like, and move toward these.
They cannot change anymore, nor could they do so easily at their age.
You can.
You can change and make everyone happy.
Isn't this what you want?
2006-06-28 08:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show an interest in what she is interested in without getting upset about things. If she criticizes you or your cloths, or whatever, thank her for her concern. If she loves you and you show her respect, then things should go fine. If not, then you can't change how another person acts. Just do the best you can to keep the relationship civil.
2006-07-03 10:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by gramawriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she have to like the same things you do in order for you to visit? She's probably not going to ever like your music or the way you dress. Try sitting down and asking her some questions about when she was young. That will give you some history and it might also help your grandmother remember what it was like at your age.
2006-06-28 07:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing more things together. Try some of the things that she likes and bargain that she has to do some of the things that you like. But dont push her too hard though. She may be feeling the same way too!
2006-06-28 07:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Confusion With a K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try some of your Grandma's favorite things. I am sure that they are fun. You should respect your Grandma. She is from a different generation. She will never like the things that you like. She will get use to some of them.
2006-06-28 07:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by tbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't force it. If you are talking about music, Start with something not too loud, CERTAINLY not vulgar, and she if she likes it. Then expand a bit. If she is too set in her ways (bad situation to be in) you may not have much luck. By the way, if you are at HER house, HER rules apply...
2006-06-28 07:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by aboukir200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start to like some of the same stuff as her then you will have some ammo when she gives you crap about the things you like
2006-06-28 07:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by kungfukiller2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate your grandma for who she is. She has lived a lot longer than you and she knows a lot more. I don't think I would want any of my grandmas to be like me because then they would not be themselves.
2006-06-28 07:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to accept the fact that you live in two diffrent times and dont fight with her or just avoid thing you disagree on.
2006-06-28 07:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋