A year ago i relized i was bie.But im only 15 and i so dont know how to tell my friends.What if they hate me.Should i tell them anyway.
2006-06-28 07:27:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would NOT tell your friends about this. You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all. BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you! Keep this to yourself for awhile!
2006-06-28 07:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Coming out is a personal choice. It has to feel right for you and it must be done for the reasons other than guilt etc. When you come out, whom you come out to can only be determined by you. Should you decide to reveal your bisexuality there are certain realities you should be prepared for.
1. Judgment
2. The possibility that some of your friends may become uncomfortable around you
3. That you may lose some of those girlfriends
4. That some may preceive you to want more than just friendship from them.
5. Acceptance may not be readily given
On the bright side those of your friends that are truly friends will accept you as you are and not lay judgments because you reveal another aspect of your life to them.
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2006-06-28 07:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Virtuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friends, because in the event you find a girl you want to date, they will feel betrayed you hid your interest from them. Sitting down and explaining to them you are just coming to terms with your feelings can avoid hard feelings. If they have a problem with you after, then they aren't true friends. You are the same person you were before and if they can't accept that, it is their loss of an honest friend.
2006-06-28 07:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately...i am 16, and i have been since i was 14. i wanted to tell someone, so i told my closest friends...they are all still my friends...they always will be. i think that you should tell them. dont be shocked if some ppl dont want to talk though...everything happens for a reason, and if you figure that the ones that are still there for you are your closest friends, then you got rid of the bad ones earlier then they could hurt you...good luck, and dont be afraid to get hurt. after all, what is life if you dont take risks?
2006-06-28 08:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell them if they dislike you then they were probably not really your friends to begin with! You should also tell them that you have no attraction to them so they have nothing to worry about cuz that will be the first thing they will worry about! It is better to be honest then to hide it because it will affect how you grow and have confidence in yourself and in your sexual orientation! Just try talking to then it's better! I hope everything goes well for you!
2006-06-28 07:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure u r not bi. all younger girls try things out like that. And you could tell your friends if there real friends they wont care. and who knows mabey they want to experument to.
2006-06-28 07:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should be open and if there really your friends they would understand that you like who you want to as long as you dont try to hit on them i think your fine.. its better to tell them now then let them find out from someone else most girls freak out lik dam she seen me in my bra and pantys!!! lol
2006-06-28 07:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by janail_boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't tell them, then they wil not be able to judge you, just wait.
2006-06-28 07:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out and be cool - kids can be such teasers at that age.
2006-06-28 08:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
switch back. your subconscience makes you think you're bi so you can get attention.
2006-06-28 07:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by DiRtAlLtHeWaY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋