I refuse to have children with anyone who isn't blonde with blue eyes. Do you have a problem with that?

Question

I have and will befriend, date, and have sex with all sorts of girls, as long as they're 9s or 10s. However, I want my children to have optimal genes, and therefore have vowed not to marry/have children with a girl if she does not have natural blonde hair and blue eyes. That is because I want to produce beautiful blonde children that I can be proud of.

I'm afraid that down the line, I will get into a serious relationship with a female with sub-optimal genes (that is, someone not blessed with the aforementioned characteristics), who might expect me to propose to her.

So do you think it would be best for me to **** and chuck non-blondes from now on, so as to avoid anything serious with someone I have no intentions of marrying/having kids with?

Enough with the Hitler comments already. Just because I have a preference in women (and standards of beauty) doesn't make me want to exterminate (or even hate) non-blondes.

As for the probability of having blonde children, my father had blonde hair and both my parents had blue eyes... so if I have children with a blonde-haired, blue-eyed girl, chances are I'll have at least one beautiful blond child.

Answer 1

If that's what floats your boat.... then you should stick to only those who you would look for a long term relationship from

Answer 2

Well I got news for ya sweetheart, just because your spouse is drop dead gorgeous, and you are totally hot, doesn't guarantee you beautiful children, believe it or not. As a matter of fact, with offspring, nothing is guaranteed. You must have forgot that. You're acting like you can actually choose a woman, tell her "We're going to make a baby with your hair and eyes," and nine months later, expect to get exactly what you wanted. Baby making is NOT like a McDonald's Drive Thru. You can pick the most beautiful woman on Earth, with all of the features that you desire, and your child can come out just as homely as the next baby. You should stop being so shallow, find a woman who you truly love and who truly loves you, and be happy! What if you never find the stereotyped woman that you want, with typical blonde hair an blue eyes? What, you just won't have kids?(that question was rhetorical) If that is what you would rather do, then you'd be really, really selfish.

Answer 3

Aside from the fact that you're a little bit shallow regarding looks your fine. Because you have an idea on what you want in a mate is very commendable. The vast majority of guys have no clue to what they want in a mate. They float rudderless around the female world like plankton waiting for some female to attract them and without any care they jump into the sack and eventually make offspring.

You should have at least a working copy of what type of woman you want. The type that will potentiate your efforts and help you reach your life goals.

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http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com

On the blond hair/blue eye thing. Hitler had done that type of Arian breeding. He didn't pay to much attention to other factors so the preponderance of the Blond thing was wasted on less than intellegent citizens. So you might want to add to list of criteria. Dumb blonde jokes didn't originate for nothing!

Charles A. Becker

Answer 4

I know you don't understand this, but there are no pure ethnic groups with the qualities of having ONLY blond hair and blue eyes. Therefore, by simply choosing a woman with blond hair and blue eyes, this does not assure you to have children with blond hair and blue eyes. My problem with this is that not only is it based on false assumptions, it is indicative of OCD that can quickly turn to abuse if not resolved before you date, marry and have children. If your obsession is blond and blue you have a high liklihood of disappointment and imagine how that would translate to your relationship with your wife and children? Don't have children if you can't love a brown eyed child equally. To have a child, and not love it equally, is a form of abuse.
As to dating women you don't plan to marry, do not abuse them the way you have described. Only date women you are seriously wanting to get to know and might possibly marry.
If you disagree with what I'm saying, then your problems are worse than OCD or juvenille sexual fantasies and you should leave women alone until you get it worked out.

Answer 5

First let me tell you that it appears your avatar has brown eyes and hair. Well, if you have brown eyes and hair, it will be almost impossible for you to have blond haired, blue eyed children. Now then, since we are past that part, do you realize how you are setting yourself up to fail in life with this attitude? I hope you end up married to a blond haired, blue eyed, rude, self-centered, selfish b****. Looks not only aren't everything...they aren't even near the top of the list. Try sincerity, love, trust, and social grace; and you could certainly use a little of the latter.

Answer 6

gee... whatever suits you. it's your life...
but that's kinda immature -- to find someone so genuine but break it off with her because she's not blonde with blue eyes. not only is it immature, it's shallow also and it says a lot about your attitude.
i don't think you are even ready to have children. a true parent who is capable of love WILL love his/her children no matter what... no matter how ugly the baby is, to the parent -- the baby is the most beautiful thing ever created. no matter how bad the baby smells -- to the parent, just by merely smelling your baby takes away all stress you have encountered during the day. you want to give your everything to the baby -- that's unconditional love.

what if the blonde woman with blue eyes had a recessive gene that brunette and brown eyes run in their family? would you give your baby up because he/she is not blonde with blue eyes? if yes, then you are definitely not ready.

how old are you by the way? 13?

Answer 7

Even if you have kids with a natural blonde with blue eyes your child may not have blonde hair and blue eyes. Those are recessive genes. Dark hair and brown eyes are the dominant genes so you have a small chance of that happening. In other words don't have children or you may not love them. You could always adopt.

Answer 8

Be picky...its your life But you are soooo shallow to think that anyone that doesnt have blonde hair and blue eyes has sub-optimal genes, I have brown hair and emerald green eyes, and I have a daughter with brown eyes brown hair and and one with blonde hair and blue eyes both very beautiful little girls, you love your children regardless of what color their eyes and hair are sweetie. I hope you will grow up before you meet the right woman.

Answer 9

Well, that's up to you, but personally I'd rather find a sensible, intelligent, and beautiful person, rather than basing it on hair/eye color alone. If I had the choice of having blonde hair/blue eyed kids who were dumb as a brick and lazy, or brown hair/green eyed kids who were very intellectual and/or athletically fit, I'd definitely say that the latter contained the "optimal" genes.

Answer 10

here is what you do. buy a blow up doll and just f*ck the brains out of that because u have insane expectations. the chances of you falling in love with a blonde blue eyed girl for real is possible but because of karma it probably won't happen. ur not an @$$ u just kno wht u want no matter how sick and twisted it is. and about the whole thing about dating girls u don't plan on marrying that is just retarded. the whole point of dating and relationships is to get married. so stop being a pig and date girls you want to mary, have kids with, and make her happy for ever.

Answer 11

That is a big problem.

I have two beautiful chlidren, one has blonde and one has brown hair and both blue eyes. My husband and I have dark hair and eyes. Its in the family genes, not just the looks of the parents.

Honestly, people like you shouldn't have children at all! It isn't the looks of your partner that you should be basing a marriage and kids on.