2006-06-28 07:22:52 · 18 answers · asked by Yellabone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TIME and honesty over and over again
2006-06-28 07:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your asking this question then you should not have a baby. I'm referring to the other question you posted where you asked if you should have a baby. You can't bring a kid into a relationship where there are trust issues.
To answer this question you're asking on this page, TIME will help rebuild and heal any damage done.
No disrespect intended but it sounds like you have a lot of maturing to do before you can have a relationship strong enough where you can have a baby.
2006-06-29 03:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to built trust once you have lied, but not impossible, but the bes way to do it it is working in the issue that you lied about it...good luck and everybody deserve a second chancce always take the opportunity and dont do the same mistake again if you consider that is not worth it!!!!
2006-06-28 07:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Angelbw5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full honesty, time and the ability to prove you have changed and won't do it again. Don't act like the other person just needs to get over it. As a partner who has been lied to many times, you have to do your part to make sure and make up for the hurt the other person has felt. They will feel like a victim.
2006-06-28 08:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by wn_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you lied about something and your spouse doesn't even know -- that already shakes the trust because deep inside, you don't trust yourself for lying to your partner.
if you really want to build trust -- honesty is the way to go. and don't expect this foundation to be as solid as before, once a trust has been destroyed -- it is hard to rebuild it again and not as strong as before anymore.
2006-06-28 07:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, time. I saw another question of yours so I know what you are going thru. You must be completely honest with your guy from now on and promise to him that you will never lie again. Ask him what he needs you to do to help the entire relationship move beyond this and continue to be strong. Keep the good factors of your relationship in mind when dealing with the situation.
Good luck to you.
2006-06-28 07:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty builds trust but the person u lied to or cheated on will never be the some even if they act like it there will always be that distrust with u....
2006-06-28 07:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Whbrunette8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends in what you lied about. and how long the person will take to get over it and install trust in you again, as far as you are concerned don't lie any more. the truth hurts but a lie will hurt more.
2006-06-28 07:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by K-Def 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, to get the trust back is gonna cost some hard dedicated work. from your side and your boy fiend. but if you lost that TRUST, it's really gonna be difficult to owe back that TRUST you had. but it's all your choice. Good luck
2006-06-28 07:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no way to build trust if ur a compulsive lier but if ur partner really wants to tyr again then u should take the TIME to give ur best efforts
it will take take a lot of time depending on how bad the lie was
but if they are worth it............... its up to you to decide
2006-06-28 07:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by halle j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u first apologise for hidding that then never ever lie, trust can build by sharing things from eachother.
2006-06-28 07:28:32 · answer #11 · answered by amna k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋