I am a beautiful woman who loves to dress to impress, but it seems that men are scared of me, they run,hide!?

Question

They think i am too much for them, they say "oh she's too upidy,I cant afford her". I look good everyday, should i tone it down or stay single 4ever?

Answer 1

No. I love chicks who knows how to dress herself. Guys who said that are just intimdated because they know that they will act stupid around you. The way you dress shows who you are. Im single too and I dont mind finding a chick who knows how to look good. Because believe it or not, if you dress nice, you feel nice. Why changed for other people? You are being yourself. Those losers probably went home and masterbate while thinking about you or something. Stay true to your beauty and style and people will stay true to you.

Answer 2

I think you should tone it down a bit. What's the point in looking good and the way you do if it's not impressing anyone and that's your goal? Try something a little more subtle, and a little more yourself. Something, say, more natural. Try not to be so out there. When you are and the guys are running and hiding, they probably find you very provocative. You don't want that. Wear clothes that are fun, but casual. And don't over do it with make-up. If you try some of this advice, some of these tips, you might be surprised what the effect might be!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

Don't tone down, stay yourself girl. Just bring up things in a conversation to raise the confidence of the man you are talking to. Such as, when he ask you what you do for a living answer with, "I'm used to 3 inches, anything more than that is a bonus.". Blame it on selective hearing because it's "been awhile". He'll see that you probably don't get around as much as he thinks and that you are mellow in the kind of guy you are after.

Answer 4

I'm not like every guy. in fact I'm probably not like very many guys. I'm also older than most of the guys on here. From my extensive experience and I say that very seriously, Women like, how you're describing yourself, are usually way too high maintenance. They think so highly of themselves they don't have room for any honest feeling for anyone else. They are just a fancy plastic package that requires constant attention. Simply put, they take the fun out of life and out of a relationship. I love seeing women get all fancied up and feminine but if your so snooty that you can't live with your feet on the ground, Nobody is going to try and climb you ladder constantly.

Answer 5

stay single for ever honey it's a lot more fun. I love nice clothes and I'm not giving up just because few men have no sense of fashion. Have fun.
Zahid

Answer 6

Everyone has their opinion of beautiful. Maybe they don't think you are and they think you are over doing it. What do other women think? Usually men don't care too much about how women are dressed compared to how much women think they look. You have to be you. Someone will come along.

Answer 7

While you may be beautiful on the outside, your insides are just downright ugly. Most guys sense this and run. Good for them.

You need to do some serious work on your "inner beauty".

Answer 8

Forget how you look. Take that money and get a personality make over.

You should do things to relate to people, -ie men. Not be a permanent model from Vogue.

Answer 9

be your self and less intimidating. I had that problem too at a time but I realize I only want to atract the people that is just like me that got the confidence.

Answer 10

I find it hard to believe they're scared because of the way you dress. Maybe it's because of the way you act.