How do i get rid of it?

Question

how do i get of this condition i have i am very shy how do i get rid of this shy action because if i go on like this it will distroye my life completely because i will not be able to make friends or even a boyfriend so please people help me

Answer 1

JUST BE YOURSELF
AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE
ALOT OF KIDS ARE SHY.. IT WILL CHANGE WITH TIME
GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

Start by making a list of things you want to accomplish in 20 years. Put at least 5 things on this list. Then make a list of things you want to accomplish in 5 months. You must put at least 10 things on this list. Of the 10 things on the list at least 5 must be going to public events.

Getting unshy, now that you have goals:

1) Look in the mirror. Is your face clean? Breath clean, Hair groomed? Clothes clean, matching, shoes "not" over run?

2) Smile in the mirror, if you were not you would you find your reflection satisfactory? If not, what would you improve?

Improve it!

If yes, go to step 3)

3) Join a chat room that mirrors your interests. Get comfortable talking to unseen people. Once you get your confidence up, learn to start conversations in public places.

4) Make a comment that anyone can agree with. Say it with confidence and a smile.

5) Smile more, people are generally gravitated towards people who are approachable.

6) Now start doing the things on those lists.

Answer 3

I was the same way and kinda still am. I'm going to 8th grade, so in 7th grade everyone wanted to talk to me because i started talking to them and stopped holding back all the time. I'm not saying that before no one wanted to talk to me, it just that in 5th grade and lower i had very few friends. 6th grade i decided i would stop being so shy because i didn't want to be alone for the rest of my life. Now everybody says i'm not shy anymore. U just have to not hold back so much. The more u be yourself, the more friends you'll have. It worked for me. Hopefully this will work for u.

Answer 4

just be urself, u can do it.