i am 16 yrs old... my parents do not want me to be have sex until i am 18. i respect that. but i constantly am horny. and i cannot stop myself from masterbating...
don't tell me to get a man... but tell me what ways can i stop doing it. in classes or in public i get horny and i sometimes have to excuse my self for bathroom breaks and masterbate? it is really freaky...
2006-06-28 06:56:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would try to keep from seeing or thinking sexual topics, would help you out some. However there is nothing really wrong with it, so I wouldn't stop, just like I do limit yourself and as time goes on your drive will drop to lower more normal level. Until, then have fun with it. It's not bad, it may even help you stay away from having sex with another person and getting in trouble. It is not freaky at all, it happens to everyone, myself too. It may be more of an issue as too why you think it is freaky? It's quite normal and just about everyone does it as well. Some just deny it. You can't just stop, rather try to cut back some if that is what you wish, and just keep cutting back, and you can get it too a tolerable level. As long as you are not hurting yourself or someone else, and still having fun, why stop? I play at least once a day sometimes twice. It's normal to have urges.
2006-06-28 07:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
How about an alternate suggestion...you should continue to masterbate!
Waiting until you're 18 to have sex is really good advice anyway, and you seem quite comfortable with your parents wishes that you save it until you're an adult. A perfect win-win situation for parent and teen.
But that's not going to change the fact that you have urges...
Masterbation is great! You can pleasure yourself all you want, you can satisfy any and all horny urges you get, yet it will never get you pregnant and you will never get a disease from it. You might want to tone it down in public, but if four, five times a day is what you need and you're in the privacy of your own room, I say indulge!
As for how to keep from being horny at inopportune times, well that's a tough one. There's really not a whole lot you can do. You could try thinking about things that aren't sexy--algebra, raw sewage, Grandpa Simpson naked--though this only works for some people. Playing sports might help you run it out of your system, especially really active sports like basketball or soccer.
PS. You're going to be a fantastic girlfriend for some guy (or girl) someday when you're ready.
2006-06-28 14:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by twiceborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an extremely active libido. Good for you for deciding to hold back until you're older.
If you really, really need to stop then find something else on which to concentrate. For example, during your classes pay more attention and get involved with the subjects more. It's good for your grades and gives your groin a rest.
Alternatively, if you find the constant craving to get off is still making you very itchy and frustrated, visit a sex toys shop and get a "bullet." You can get one that has wireless remote control. Tuck it up inside and wear it all day (I have a very dear friend with your same problem; she just left in in for the longest time). When you simply can't do without, use the remote to turn it on. Be careful - at higher speeds these things make a small buzzing noise and it might be noticeable.
Should help a lot if nothing else works.
Good luck and where were YOU when I was in school? Hee, hee ...
2006-06-28 14:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Der Lange 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop? What you are doing is perfectly normal. It's far better that you are doing this than out doing it with a guy every time you get horny. You can get relief from your normal sexual urges without going against your parents wishes. At least you will know what makes you feel good, and believe me there are some guys out there who appreciate it when a girl lets them know what works for them.
2006-06-28 14:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you should force yourself to stop. It's fulfilling a great function, which is to keep you making sane choices about your sex life. More power to you and it's not in the least abnormal.
Try to teach your body to come just by you squeezing your legs together. It's more discreet and you won't have to go to the bathroom. And it's a skill that will come in handy later on.
Other than that, try to give yourself more time in the evenings or alone at home so you don't need to worry in school.
2006-06-28 14:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into some after school physical activities such as soccer, basketball or something that tires you out.
Get into some activities that will also occupy your mind.
A certain amount of masturbation is quite natural, but you obviously overdo it. It really sounds like you are lonely and bored. Once you have other things to do and other ways to expend your energy, you will probably stop obsessing on sex.
2006-06-28 14:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that if you get that urge, to start exercising. Working out does the same thing that masturbating does it relieves unwanted stress. This comes from experiance, so I know that it works.
Another thing is if you come from a religious family, try praying and reading the scriptures do anything you can to get your mind on something else.
Good Luck,
Prince Zelph
2006-06-28 14:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by princezelph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not you just have a high sex drive it common for a person to do it at least 3 or 4 times a day when young if you feel this is wrong dont you can just try to slow down or just let it pass i cant tell you how long it will take but it will happen ok
2006-06-28 14:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not freaky at all, its natural you have feelings. Take your mind off it, keep your self busy doing other things. Go out watch a movie, have fun with friends.
2006-06-28 14:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by eestrada0912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Girl, you so need to get a guy not for sex, but for care and patience. You are one horny girl...and a lot of guys are going to take advantage of that..just watch out honey. I was horny a lot too, but stuck it out. Take care
2006-06-28 13:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋