You two broke up because it happened so fast and the timing was way off because you weren't ready for that kind of love yet. And now you regret it but you don't talk to them anymore and its been a few years. You haven't seen them for 4 months last year and a month this year. But he is the only one you always think about. I can't move on, I've tried to, I dated so many guys but no one measures up to him. I haven't spoken to him for 2 years. When I do see him, I want to hug him and kiss him and just hold him and never let go...
2006-06-28 06:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I never told him how I feel, I ignore him when I see him because I am scared of rejection and I want to move on, I feel like ignoring him is the best way to do that but it hasn't worked for the 2 years I haven't been with him.
2006-06-28 06:56:02 · update #1
How can I say this...um....GO GET YOUR MAN! You need to track him down, tell him why you screwed up and hope for the best.
Remember...you weren't ready then and you have to accept the fact that he might not be ready now. Rejection cuts deep. Another point is you need to work out your own issues about why you wouldn't except that kind of love. I mean if it's the kind that spells true committment, are you ready for that now? And if you are not, leave that man alone. Don't drag him into a dead end situation. I mean let's face it...it takes two to make it work not one giving it all and the other hardly giving.
2006-06-28 07:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by JOELLEMICHELLE 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call or send him an email, just let him know that you were thinking about him. Don't say too much right off, see if he has anything else going on that would interfere with you guys getting back together. Then if all goes well, just tell him how you feel. But....you need to be ready for the fact that he may have moved on and may not be interested or available anymore....just be prepared. Good Luck!!
2006-06-28 06:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that's the case, then you should call him. Guys know it's not easy to find a girl that feel that strongly about them. You have to find a way to contact him without embarassing yourself. Send a letter if you have to. You both deserve to know how you feel about him. Maybe it will be the best thing you ever did for yourself and for someone else. You have to try. But make sure you're not doing it just because you're settling.
2006-06-28 06:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you were not ready then for that kind of love.. are you ready now? if yes, then try to find each other again.. if you know he's the ONE, don't let anything prevent you from pursuing the love that was meant for you.. try to find some time to talk to him and find out if he still feels the same.. if it's not the same for him anymore, then that's another thing.. you just have to learn to let go and be ready enough to accept the fact that it's now time to move on
2006-06-28 07:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean the live is real but the thing is if want something so bad you have to get it before someone else take it away and then your really going to regret it go ahead and do your thing get your man back and tell him how you feel you just dont know maybe he feels the same way by you ignoring him he might think you dont care about him anymore please tell him girl i put it like this he's yours all ou have to do is put your arms around him and never let him go keep me posted watch what happens goodluck.
2006-06-28 07:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by honey bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 09:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels the same way, take a chance for love, you don't have him now so what do you have to lose? I use to avoid going the places you are talking about, but I have learned that people aren't mindreaders and sometimes you gotta tell them and take a chance. you can't tell what he is thinking obviously neither can he, why do you expect him to?
2006-06-28 06:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by not_in_this_lifetime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda obbessive, huh? Anyway, you could tell him how you feel *thru email, phone, letter, or in person* or just listen to what my friend told me, *it really works*, "Things like him need to be spat on, thrown in the dust, and dragged forty miles!" *But, then you might be convicted of hit and run* ;D Hope it works out!
2006-06-28 07:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by dark0sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said what you need to just say to him. NOONE measures up, and hope that he feels the same way. If you think it may be to hard, write a letter. He may be feeling the same way, but with you ignoring each other...........
How are you to know!?!?!
2006-06-28 06:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know about it. talk to him about the mistakes you made, when you were in love with him, and tell him that you not going to make this kind of mistakes again, because you realize that he is the one for you, you don't loose him.
2006-06-28 07:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋