In terms of a new relationship
2006-06-28 06:51:58 · 17 answers · asked by lollygagger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
means you are ruining the natural flow of things...maybe you are pushing too much or asking too many questions or just pressuring...you need to sit back, relax and let the relationship grow on its own
2006-06-28 06:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Um, hmm maybe the "killjoy" is the one keeping the relationship from running smoothly?? Either not letting the bonding go normally or hindering/speeding it up??
2006-06-28 13:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your new relationship isn't going far if this is what your told at the start. Your killing the joy of bonding with your partner. It's a weird thing for someone to tell you, but that's what they mean.
2006-06-28 13:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by jasonlajoie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bringing too much reality into the fantasy of a new relationship. Every new relationship starts with a little magic...a little mystery...that is part of it's allure. Stop thinking things through so much and go with the flow.
2006-06-28 13:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who is being the killjoy and who doing the bonding, my son and his gf say that i am the killjoy for not letting them do it,
2006-06-28 14:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amangela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are someone who does something to screw up the natural bonding process.
2006-06-28 13:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously someone is trying to bond with you and you're not allowing them to or atleast thats they way they feel.
2006-06-28 13:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice way of saying we're never gonna get along because I think you're an insensative jerk.
2006-06-28 13:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are doing things to "kill the joy" out of the relationship.
2006-06-28 13:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one wants to bond with you or some one else and "you" are not allowing it to happen or are making it no fun.
2006-06-28 13:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋