Who can understand night dreams?

Question

Recently I've been having two or even three dreams where the face of a friend who's no longer a friend apeared... See, a little more than half an year ago, he decided to make himself disappear for me. By that I mean, he asked me to forgot everything about him... his address, his name, and basically his existance. I decided that he was a really bad friend and did as he wished. But then, I knew that he was the cause for the pierce in my left year and he was the one that helped me find out more about stuff any teenager should know like b/j, sex, making out with a girl, etc. I knew I was a total loser next to him since everytime something like that would come up in a conversation and I'd say I don't know what that is, he'd be swearing and all...

He's been known to cut school quite often, but after he decided to delete me from his friends list figuratively speaking, I saw him a bunch of times at school. But for the last 2 or 3 months before Summer began, I didn't see him anywhere

it was like he was gone all of a sudden. I didn't see him anywhere outside school either. Some thoughts came that maybe he's moved or got killed in Maffia fight... he was a strange kid. I am too afraid to check if he still lives in the same house...

Anyway, after those thoughts and suspicians came, I began having those dreams where he finally appears. Weird eh? Anybody understands this whole thing??

he's really a rude person, but he was the closest thing I had to a friend here in Brooklyn, New York. My true best friend lives in Israel.

You know what, maybe you know him!!! His name is Vitaly Nazarenko... he designs websites. He wears glasses, he's skinny, and his hight is almost 6 feet (if it isn't 6 feet already. He speaks Russian and English. So, what do you say?

i'd just like to add that I'm a 16-year-old BOY and so is he.

Answer 1

you miss your friend.

Answer 2

To be honest, it sounds like this ex-friend of yours is a bit of a loser. He feels the need to crap on other people to make himself feel better. You are not a total loser next to him, very much vice-versa. He wants to feel like an adult by throwing out words that actually make him look stupid. Trust me, when you get a bit older, you will realize that he was a waste of your time and energy. You are probably having these dreams because he shrunk your confidence in yourself, and maybe your subconcious is trying to get that confidence back from him. If you really want to know what the dreams mean, you need to look at the dream as a whole. Think about every detail and what it means to you. Then put all of the details back together, and hopefully you will have a bit better of an insight.

Answer 3

The fact that he told you stuff you're likely never to forget means that you will still have been influenced by him no matter how hard you try to forget about him or otherwise don't think about him. Your mind will still remember who taught you all that and it'll probably never forget no matter what you do.

As for your dream you can't remove people from your mind without some sort of brain damage. I've remembered people from when I was 3 and that I'd only met a few times even then. You'll just have to accept the fact that he was someone in your life before whether you lke it or not.

Answer 4

This person you are thinking about so much,and who's giving you NIGHTMARES not night dreams. Dreams are good nightmares are bad remember that.. Anyway! it sounds like this person made an impact on your life to the point you think you're not as good as he is. Let me say SCREW THAT!!!. Never let anyone or anything make you think your less than.(period)
This person who you are thinking about so much, you need to let him go. There's a reason why you two aren't friends anymore keep it that way.
What you described to us in your description of him, you don't need to be bothered by a person like that. Keep positive people in your young life, not the ones that will bring you heartache and drama. You have your whole life ahead of you for life's learning lesson. Take heed... Trust me.

Answer 5

Actually, you're not telling me the whole dream. Based on what you're saying though, just seing the face of someone on a dream may be associated to either something that you used to do together, most definitely if he is dead, or he is like in a trap right now and thinking of how you could help him out.

Answer 6

Because you did not see him the last 2 or 3 months before summer your subconscious probably wonders where he is and what is going on with him? Just a guess?

Answer 7

the thing is that u just miss ur friend 2 much. u need 2 spend some time with him b4u totally go crazy 4 him, thtas the problem, u need 2 find him. or u can just leave it 2 God and 4get him.

Answer 8

you are simply missing the friendship and not necessarily him.Find your self a great new friend and his disturbing face will disappear. Best of luck,and remember that was goes around comes around and some day someone will treat him as he did you.

Answer 9

You still want him in your life, that's what I can see. Try talking to him, and resolving these feelings. If it leads to a relationship, great. But if he isn't interested, then you need to move on because he isn't worth your time. Whatever you do though, remember that he is not worth compromising yourself over. Take care, and God bless.

Answer 10

There is a good place online to look at dream meanings ....go to www.dreammoods.com there is everything there. Maybe you just miss him and there is something going on in your life that you wish you had him there for..or wanted to act like him to get through it....but I would def suggest going to that site

Answer 11

its very hard to understand dreams they could have many meaning when i posted the same question like you did i came up with many answers the question i asked was i had a very strange dream the night before my birthday i did not have much time left many diffrent answers