2006-06-28 06:51:35 · 32 answers · asked by rach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all I would like to say Im in a relationship and would never do that to my man. Im asking because my best friend is sleeping with her mans best friend since childhood. Okay? So all of you who jump to conculsions can go somewhere else okay?
2006-06-28 07:04:26 · update #1
Depends on if you want your friend to really be your friend. You could ask your friend, but they would still get mad about it even if they said no. If you like the ex more than the friend then go for it. Good luck.
2006-06-28 06:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do feel that it is wrong if your friend had true feelings for this person. Put yourself in that situation. How would you feel if your so-called friend started sleeping with someone you had been dating? You could pretend like you wouldn't care, just to make you feel better about sleeping with your friends ex, but you would really be hurt by it. That's if you have a heart. people who do you dirty like that is the reason it is so hard to consider people friends. It is a very bad choice. Because what you do will come back on you. Think about it.
2006-06-28 07:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by charyia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who wants sloppy seconds?
There is no mystery in a relationship that your best friend can give you a play-by-play on. Even worse, what if there were some lingering emotions between them and she chose to become manipulative. It is best to get your own from your own source without someone knowing your ecstacy, right?
2006-06-28 06:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong. If the shoe was on the other foot how would that person feel if they had that done to them by a so-called-friend.
2006-06-28 08:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends. Did your friend break up with him/her or did him/her break up with your friend? If your friend did the breaking up then i say go for it, but if him/her did the breaking up then probably not. The only time i would do it when the him/her did the breaking up is when your friend is totally over that person...
Well hope that helps!
2006-06-28 06:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it is a matter of your own personal morals and your understanding of karma. See, what goes around...(smile) It could be your ex, next time. Think of how you would feel. Then you well have a answer that you can live with. Chow!
2006-06-28 06:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by jazzfolife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends...if your friend and her ex were serious then it's probably a bad idea unless he/she says it's ok. If they just went out a couple times then there shouldn't be an issue.
2006-06-28 06:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kyleen G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a teenagers dilemma. When you grow up and become adults you won't care who sleeps with your ex and you get on with your life.
2006-06-28 06:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like your friend to sleep with your ex? You must not be much of a friend to even think about it. Bottom line....WRONG, WRONG, WRONG.
2006-06-28 06:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only desperate guys or women can do that. If you have no one to sleep with, it makes a lot of sense.
2006-06-28 06:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋