hello my girl wants to have a three some with me and another woman. the only reason we havent yet had one is because of me. i do not think she is ready for that kind of relationship. we both have had three somes in the past but her experience from what she told me was good but she got upset that the guy she dated before got super excited about the other woman. my girl friiend is the type of woman that is satisfied with having one orgasim where i love for a woman to have many. im afraid that after my girl gets her orgasim that its going to be just me and the other girl and she is going to feel left out upset and jealous i tried talking to her about it and she blows it off like my feelings do not matter. so just looking for mature answer with my pproblem please thank you.
2006-06-28 06:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by todaysgentleman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First sir I am no bible thumper, but threesomes with your partner/girlfriend/wife is adultery and wrong. Next, from what you said in here you already know your answer. No she is not ready. listen to yourself and your heart. They typically will not lead you astray if you truly listen to them. I would suggest you continue to tell her no. If you are not monogamously commited to here, I suggest you look to see why you are not, and or why she is not to you. Once you committ to each other and stop thinking and or playing around your relationship can grow and be more fulfilling. If you can't do this, than you have no business being in a relationship with her, for you haven't found complete happiness.
2006-06-28 06:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say go ahead and have the threesome and perhaps when she does have an orgasim she will be even more turned on when watching and might get back in bed and have some more fun, i mean the possabilities of what she will do is endless
2006-06-28 06:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Susanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is with someone she does not know, if she brings a friend in, it will ruin their relationship. Then just let the night roll on, have you girlfriend tell you what she wants you to do. then you will be out of the dog house, because that's what she wanted.
2006-06-28 06:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by TopFuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think your worries are well-founded.
Second, if she "blows off your feelings like they don't matter," then go find yourself a new girlfriend. Seriously. If her sexual *fantasies* are more important to her than your real feelings, then dump her like the trash she's mimicking.
2006-06-28 06:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jay H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Jay H. No one who cares about you should blow off your feelings.
2006-06-28 06:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well explain and talk 2 her and have her promise that she will not get jealous .
2006-06-28 06:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dominique w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it , man! what the hell's wrong with you? what's pressing on your brain. if you don't they'll find some other man who will and while they're having fun they'll tell him what a dumb *** you are.
2006-06-28 06:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Stuie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋