she comes very soon when i enter her vaginally. i dont like pumping away if she can no longer enjoy it!!! what do i do to slow her orgasm??
2006-06-28 06:35:15 · 15 answers · asked by shy guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks for the replies. see, i do love giving her oral sex. actually i really enjoy it. but, i need tips to prolong the delay of her vaginal orgasm. need tips there.
2006-06-28 06:40:53 · update #1
It's rare to hear of this. Usually it's the other way around. My boyfriend is always holding back, waiting for me. I'm not really sure but I know their are lubricants and creams out there for men that desensitize and help them go longer before orgasm. Maybe there is something like that for women. I would have her talk to her doctor if she is comfortable with it. Also maybe she could get you very close to climax before you start intercourse by oral sex of other stimulation. You may take less time.
2006-06-28 06:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try http://www.directvideoanddvd.com/listcategory_toys.asp. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]
2006-07-05 00:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? most women can have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation...most women find it more difficult to orgasm from vaginal intercourse...if you are in certain positions, then intercourse shouldn't be an issue because you are not directly stimulating the clitoris...you may need to idenfify your terms more corrrectly, speak with your wife and fully understand what it is the two of you are talking about...
2006-06-28 06:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean no longer enjoy it? Women can have more orgasms than men, so that first one is just one in a series.
Quit worrying about her and get your needs met.
2006-06-28 06:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can have more than one orgasm! BY the way, consider yourself very lucky...my girlfriend has never had an easy time reaching "o". I usually have to spend about 30 minutes in foreplay just to get her to relax and be able to have one!
2006-06-28 06:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She/You need to slow down on the clitoral stimulation until you are closer to orgasm. It might take a few tries to get the timing down, but hey, practice makes perfect! :)
2006-06-28 06:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by SUzyQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slower. Does she enjoy it after she has an orgasm? I have them quick but I'll keep going for hours.
2006-06-28 06:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ambestol. It's the stuff you use for a toothache. It's edible, non-toxic, and it lowers sensitivity. Rub her clit with it, give it 5 minutes to take a hold, and the two of you screw your brains out!
2006-06-28 06:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rushtake your time go down on her first try a different position
2006-06-28 06:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doggy style.
2006-06-28 06:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋