i slept with my best friend and he has a girlfriend. I didn't mean to it just happened. I think that i'm falling for him, should i just cut it off or continue? Please give me genuine answers.
2006-06-28 06:26:35 · 11 answers · asked by dimples 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say tell him how you feel.. obviously you all have been "together" for a while now if he is your best friend... however just becuase you all had sex doesn't mean it will make or break the relationship...
However, I would tell him how I feel about the situation and see if his feelings are the same..... then you will know what you are to do.
2006-06-28 06:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel before you continue, because remember he has a girlfriend. think how you would feel if it was you he was messing around on. If he feels the same way then he should let the other girl go, before he start sleeping with you.
2006-06-28 13:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by P B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, duh. He has a gf! She will be very mad at you, and him too. This guy is worthless, and you do yourself a favor to get rid of him now, cuz if you don't, you'll figure it out later and have a lot more pain to get over.
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Oh, that's right he's your best friend, so he can't be worthless. Sorry, I guess I assumed that worthless people don't have friends. Obviously they do. There's nothing wrong with being friends with this guy, and there's nothing wrong with sleeping with him even though he's with someone else, and there's nothing wrong with falling for him. But remember, there's nothing wrong with all the pain and grief and sorrow you will get by doing those things.
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Best of luck.
2006-06-28 13:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by im_a_fun_nut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DID mean to. Things don't just happen. You should leave him alone and have respect for the girlfriend. Put yourself in her shoes.
Just kidding. Keep bangin' him and get busted by the girlfriend. That would be funny.
2006-06-28 13:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by neverbathe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how that "just" happens, did he slip and fall into you? You both knew what you were doing now someone has to tell the girlfriend and he can decide if he wants to be with you or her..
2006-06-28 13:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happened? Ho-boy. Of course you should continue. But don't tell the GF that's his job and I'm sure he'll do it right away.
2006-06-28 13:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut what off? is there anything there to even cut off? if you slept with him, call him, tell him how awkward this is, but you do have feelings for him and see what he says...unfortunately, he probably enjoyed ******* you but is gonna keep his current gf...
2006-06-28 13:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cats outta the bag now. You better talk to him one on one. And this time with your clothes on.
2006-06-28 13:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and butt out. Friends don't do that unless they are a friend with benefits.......which I would assume if that was the case, you wouldn't feel guilty about it............
2006-06-28 13:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue and tell him your feelings. :0)
2006-06-28 13:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋