2006-06-28 06:13:25 · 13 answers · asked by sam_zealous 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
A doctor could do it, but the real question is "why"? If you love her, does it matter if she had sex before? If you trust her, does it matter if she had sex before? If you're going to marry her and she's promising to be faithful to you, what's the purpose of "the test"?
The reality that YOU have to consider is that very few women are virgins when they marry anymore. If you've dated a woman and fallen in love with her to the point that you want to marry her, the question of sexual history should have been discussed a very long time ago. If you're only raising it after asking her, you're likely to find yourself in a world of trouble.
2006-06-28 06:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by yellow_jellybeans_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to tell before you get married is to have sex first or TRUST her and if you don't Trust her then you shouldn't marry her because trust is the number one thing that can make or break a marriage. And if you feel you can't trust her then why get married.
2006-06-28 13:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Liz S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie said it best. Asking works well. If you can't trust her to be honest with you, then maybe you should rethink marrying her.
2006-06-28 13:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but if you don't believe that she is lying about her virginity, then maybe you shouldn't marry her.
2006-06-28 13:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by k_h_brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think after the first time of having sex her hymen will break and there will be blood. i think in ancient times they used to look for the blood stain on the bed sheets to prove it. and if there wasn't one she was stoned
2006-06-28 13:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you ask her, and you accept her answer without ever doubting her. If you can't do that, you have no business marrying her.
2006-06-28 13:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cosmic I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with pagan earthgirl!
2006-06-28 13:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a doctor can tell you but it's not always 100% because the hymen can break from other things than sex.
2006-06-28 13:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try top **** your bride before marrige. if its painfull to her then she was virgin till few seconds earliar.
2006-06-28 13:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by rahul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There isn't. At least not one that is legal.
2006-06-28 13:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋