i have a lesbian best friend and a gay very close friend. and i was friends withthem before i knew so why should i stop now? i'm bi so i have no problem with it but a lot of our friend sthat just found out about us are really grossed out now and treat us diiferent when we speak of the same sex.... and a lot of people think we are gross because we are differnt. i go to church and i believe in the bible but i don't agree with everything. what do you guys think?
2006-06-28 06:12:48 · 21 answers · asked by ♥[HER] SWeeT P0T@T0e♥ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are still exactly who you were. You were bi before and they didn't know it, and now they do. Nothing about you changed. I would let them go and focus on people who will love and support you for who you are, and appreciate your value as a human being on this planet.
2006-06-28 06:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and your friends are no differant from anyone else. You have a lifestyle that is opening up now more and more. If they are friends they should not look at you as gay,lesbian or bisexual but just friends. I know I have many friends who have their own lifestyle and I respect them as they do me. Friends are friends no matter what. If your friends think you are gross, just feel sorry for them. I am a guy and I think to each their own. I have friends who are gay,lebian and bisexual but that doesn't come to mind when we are together. Just be who you are and if they are true friends, they won't think of you as anything but a friend.
2006-06-28 12:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by CathyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be serious you need know what God says (you can find out by reading His book, its called the Bible) and Yes God says that homosexuality of any sort is a sin, but we are all sinners. (All means everyone not just gays and lesbians) Even though God may hate what we do (sin, including but not limited to homosexuality) He loves us and has a better plan for us, if we will just trust him and live for him rather than what we ourselves think is right. Now many us get creeped out by certain sins, but in reality sin is sin, no matter how minor or how strange. I we need to get away from it as soon as possible (This is easier said than done, beings as we are human and have a natural bent towards sin.
2006-06-28 06:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by David H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, mean people just suck ......and nice people let th...oh never mind
You can't please all the people all the time. People are going to find fault with some one over something and being GLBT is a really big target because those that are out are a very small group. if all the people that fit the GLBT label came out the world would realize just how many of us there where.
Ignore those that are freaked they will adjust or move on you need to just focus on your life and being happy.
2006-06-28 06:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For instantly men, seeing 2 lesbians do what they do is a turn on because that is wanting something they could't have. of their own little myth, they are probable sandwiched someplace between both women persons. men almost consistently want something they could't have, and extra in many circumstances seek for prompt gratification in circumstances like this. women persons, besides the undeniable fact that, artwork otherwise. a lady often needs to sense loved, wanted, pleasing, as a way to ascertain 2 men getting it on makes her sense as besides the undeniable fact that there will be something incorrect such as her if the boys would particularly have one yet another than her.
2016-10-13 22:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the Bible was written more than 2000 years ago, i doubt whatever that is in there applies to everyone,through the ages. (a good example would be "everybody loves Chris" 's answers on this issue (go look it up and you'd be impressed because i was!) and as for church? i stopped feeling sad and sorry for who i am a long time ago..... you might wanna try it, it feels liberating, to remove a huge burden off your shoulders (IE: knowing that you are going to hell for being a lesbian) Que Serra Serra i say!
they treat you differently because you are different! (which is wrong ) but people tend to have a general fear for all things unknown or misunderstood. I'm still in the closet to most of my acquaintances and they don't even suspect that i am one! but whenever they make stupid gay jokes, i get so pissed cuz they judge people based on their labels and NOT for who gays and lesbians are as a person!
i think to them, we are a different breed altogether. we might as well have tentacles on us cuz that's how they treat us.... again, fear of the unknown. sigh..... looks like we are fighting a losing battle when it comes to ignorant homophobes.....
good luck kid
2006-06-28 06:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live on a let live prenciable what happens in the bed room stays there it is non of my buessness. people who make a big deal about it are just inviuse. i personaly am straight and have lots of freinds some with views and lifestyles i might not agree with personally but there still good people and good hearts. i think if someone treats you diffrently treat them the same. the golden rule is golden for a reason.
2006-06-28 06:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by chucky w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who now treat you diffreent need to respect you for being different. Don't be ashmed. It's more difficult for gay/bi people in the US. Up here in Canada we are a lot better at these things.
2006-06-28 06:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by sphere_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian and I am so proud it's incredible! We are not different, we are the same people only that we don't have any power on who or hearts fall in love with or who we are attracted to. I believe in god and if gays and lesbians were so not meant to be and were to be damned by god then why did the almighty god create us, god created all of us...we are all equal! And F.Y.I : people have it all twisted...we are the straight ones not them..lol!
2006-06-28 06:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, having friends of all orientations, with diversity. It keeps your mind open to the ideas of others.
Ever single person is different, that's what great about getting to know other people!
People who put down others for their orientation, or skin color, or background, or what language they speak are just wrong. They certainly aren't 'christians,' either.
2006-06-28 06:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋