What should I do?

Question

My friend took something I said and twisted everything to suit her. She then told another person the revised version of what I originally said. Now this other person hates me and refuses to talk to me because she thinks I said something which I really didn't. Meanwhile, she has made no effort to contact me even though she knows her actions have caused me alot of grief. Everyone says don't bother with her anymore but I want to give her a piece of my mind. Do I let it go and move on or confront her?

Answer 1

Just let it go. When you give her a piece of your mind, you may feel better for a moment, but then it still doesn't solve the problem, and you'll still not be happy. It will also most likely make the situation even worse.

Answer 2

Let it go and move on. Even if you give her a piece, it's not going to change anything. She'll probably just twist that too. I've had friends like that in the past and I can't tell you the relief I felt after ending the relationships. Sometimes I blocked them from my email accounts, or just stopped contacting them altogether. You will feel so awesome when you stop dealing with her. The drama will disappear and you will be happy. Good luck!

Answer 3

I would give my peice of mind- but that's just how I am. If nothing else, it makes me feel better for a short time. I have confronted people before and felt sooo much better. On the flip side, I've confronted people and lost really good friends. Or atleast they seemed to be good friends that made bad decisons. Good luck to you and I hope this gets cleared up.

Answer 4

Try to talk to her again.convince her to talk to you and tell her to listen to you and say you will explain everything. If you are having a hard time talking to her personally,try email or write her a letter. If she still ignores you then you should just let go and move on. She is not your true friend if she acts like that. Because true friends will always give time to listen and let you explain everything. Good luck!

Answer 5

You are just like me, you dont want to drop the situation, you want to let it out in the open and make sure she knows how mad you are. My advice to is, talk with her, but dont be too mean, and tell her all of the trouble she has cause you. And say I dont think we should be friends anymore, because of your actions for doing something to hurt me. Hope I helped

Answer 6

I know that it maybe hard but you should cut your ties with her. This girl is not your real friend and as for the other girl give her some time to come around. And if this girl does not come around leave her alone also you should never have to feel guilty about something that you did not say or do. Now remember whatever you do always avoid that he say she say childessness because this is what happens.

Answer 7

I would say go to the second person. Skip right over the "friend" you originally told. She knows what she did so you shouldn't waste time telling her. It will eat away at her. The second person will hear what you have to say, and if she doesn't, you don't want her as a friend either.

Answer 8

First, confront her, THEN move on. Let her know that she is done walking all over you; if she were a true friend she wouldn't have done that. Tell her to have a nice life.

Answer 9

Tis always best to move on. If you continue to think of her you will be forever sad. Life is too short to dwell on the ramblings of one so misguided.Make new friends and have a good life.

Answer 10

I agree with Dolphin, but if your friend starts going on and on making excuses or twisting that conversation around, walk away and move on with your life without her.