Okay....I've been seeing this guy for the past 7 months. We met eachother after we both had just gotten out of long term relationships. He's been saying from the beginning that he wasn't looking for another relationship. At the time I felt the same, but after all that we've been through and have done, I've found myself wanting to be with him. He keeps telling me to hold on and just wait a little while and that we'll be together one day. Is this just something to keep the friends with benefits role going or is in sincere?? I feel like he's taking advantage of our friendship by making me believe that tomorrow something else may happen. Should I get out of this situation and try to return to the "Friends without benefits?"
2006-06-28 06:02:05 · 10 answers · asked by DaBossLady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not going to happen and inside you know it don't you? Get out of the situation and stop allowing him to string you along and waste your time and get you more emotionally entangled.Espcially since you were the one who fliped the script on him. He was honest and told you what he wanted out of the relationship at the start YOU changed.
Get out and socialize with new persons who will appreciate your true worth.
2006-06-28 06:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you return to Friends without benefits he will have to make a choice and you will know one way or the other. Now he has no incentive to decide as they say - Why buy the cow when you are getting free milk.
Good Luck
2006-06-28 06:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by mukherd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's basically stringing you along to get ***. Sorry to be so blunt, but it's the truth. I know because I been through it with a girl my senior year of college I was seeing... without the hookup part so much. Try not being friends with him at all. Too much drama.
2006-06-28 06:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should stop the friends with benefits. He is just using you and you are letting him. Girl find someone who wants you not someone who keeps you on the side.
2006-06-28 06:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely get out of the situation who ever this guy is I'm sure you don't deserve to be treated like that and what i know is that when you really like someone you do not wait you get on with it already so just move on with you're life love he doesn't deserve you
2006-06-28 06:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by ioana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get out of this situation before u get hurt, maybe u will eventually find someone who loves u.
2006-06-28 06:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're prob a booty call and maybe he still has feelings for his ex.
2006-06-28 06:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, he's playing you. he isn't willing to commit so its not gonna work out.
2006-06-28 06:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm too lasy to read everythin you sayed.... so FIGURE IT OUT!!!
2006-06-28 06:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by confused1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him: "what are you waiting for?"
2006-06-28 06:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋