i don't know what to do because i like my best friend but i don't wanna ruin things with my boy friend and my best friend has a girlfriend also, what can i do?
2006-06-28 06:02:03 · 32 answers · asked by pretty lil thang 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
youll know your boyfriend is the man for you when he is your best friend and your boyfriend. Stay with your man....your best friend is already showing he is disloyal (as he has a girl and telling another girl he loves her). Is that the kinda man you want to have?
2006-06-28 06:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by flyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you feel about the best friend, if you've only known your bf for a little while, consider your best friend as possible bf, but then again if you don't wanna do that just say " I'm sorry I really don't feel the same way, and I'd like us to still be friends" and really REALLY try to stay friends cause it will be akward and stuff, actually thats proably your best bet.. . . .just follow your heart and you'll get through it, good luck and maybe you should try talking to one of your really really close girl pals about it be careful who you pick though, you don't want a blabber,
Anyways Again good luck!
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2006-07-12 05:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you should just hang on for a moment. Your actions will have effect on 4 hearts including your own. You can love a lot of people. That does not mean that you go around with all of them. Have self-worth. At this stage, it is a compliment. If things go wrong, it will be credited to you too. Hang on for now.
One boyfriend is plenty, since you don't seem to be complaining about him. Even if he weren't in the picture, my answer stands.
If you really love him, there will be time to move on. No point deciding today and ditching your boyfriend and his girlfriend/worse-cheating at moment's notice. You could do it again and again. After all, we have plenty of friends don't we?
2006-06-28 06:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Vidyut Kale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend stay with him. If your male friend's girlfriend is friends with you too you will loose that friendship. Boyfriends come and go but your female friends can last forever if you don't infringe on their males. You need to be mature enough to sore these kind of things out for yourself to be mature enough to be dating in the first place.
2006-07-10 20:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends always make the best boy friends. They already know everything and can be said for you. But if u arent ready don't force yourself into a relationship.
2006-07-06 12:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rayve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a very difficult sittuation cuz i have been in it many times. i just let me and my boi friend run our course and then when things are over if you and your best friend still have feelings for each other then try being together. i get in this situation alot. its really hard to deal with. your boi friend might realize that something is up. so its your choice to tell him or not. i always do. but thats totally up to you. hope i was any help..if ya have anyother questions just e-mail me
2006-07-08 07:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by a_hotgurl_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i feel is that maybe u have already have a little feels for your best friend. Because if u dont, you wouldnt have this headache. But bear in mind, dun mix up between Best friend and Boy friend...
2006-07-11 21:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, tell him that you want to keep being best friends and see what happens from there. You may want to really think about this. What qualities make him your best friend? Does your boyfriend have those same qualities?
2006-07-12 06:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell ur best friend the truth that u luv him as a friend and that u don't want to mess up what u have with ur boyfriend......If he is a real friend he will understand.......and tell him that he has a girlfriend and shouldn't do that to her......I hope I help u .....good luck
2006-07-11 11:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 21:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋