2006-06-28 06:01:49 · 26 answers · asked by ladydi_me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask myself why someone I have been with for 4 years might want to leave...
2006-06-28 06:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on what "pushes you aside for other woman friends" really stands for.
Other lovers: Deconstruct your love and find someone else with whom you can have a more balanced and mutually rewarding relationship.
Just friends, maybe important moral or professional obligations: Nobody lives in a vacuum. You should not try to or make your partner try to. This, then, would likely be a case of misplaced jealousy and you would have to work on becoming more secure in this relationship if you can. (that would probably also require reassurance work by him, all for the goal of "together in the world", much nobler than the previous "it's either me or the world -- or else you don't love me")
Gee... I hope I didn't just sound like Dr. Phil... :-P
2006-06-28 14:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be intelligent and honest with yourself. Here I will give you a guys answer. He is just not that into you. If he was you would be his #1. He would treat you as if you were irreplaceable! Its called "love". So be smart and don't be afraid of being alone, set your insecurities aside, and start being a strong woman. He will only take advantage of you for as long as you let him. Get smart and leave his azz!
2006-06-28 13:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robmajik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM! If he's THAT much of a jerk, then find a really awesome guy. Also, maybe look at the guys you're dating. Maybe you need to have more self-respect for yourself and date some better guys. It's SO hard to just walk away, but once you get over it, you will end up SO much better.
2006-06-28 13:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! Realize that you're worth more. I had the same problem with an ex and, although it hurt in the beginning, it was a great decision. I met someone even better!
2006-06-28 13:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick your heart up dust it off, take a little time and heal.
go out with friends and dont sit around and cry, he's not
worth the energy. One day when you lease expect Mr right will show.
2006-06-28 13:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by musicman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else because if he has given up on the relationship he is just going to treat you like sh*t from now on. It hurts when ppl are hatful but you have to move on and enjoy life.
Good luck:>
2006-06-28 13:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push back. Just stand up to him infront of the women friends and say you have the choice here dude... them or me..... that's just a thought. Best wishes
2006-06-28 13:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. Let him treat someone ELSE like that - tell him you have too much self respect for that kind of treatment.
2006-06-28 13:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. There are a million more men out there that will treat you better. Live your life for yourself not him. Then when he realizes his mistake, you've moved on & found someone else. HIS LOSS!!!!
2006-06-28 13:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋