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im just curious because i look at other woman and wonder what it would be like do woman do and think the same be honest

2006-06-28 05:59:42 · 20 answers · asked by loucards1fan 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

20 answers

Yep we do think about it- and yep- we do it-
and yes marriages have ended because of it-
although I am not trying to defend cheating, if we are treated
right, given the attention we need, or not cheated on first- we probably would not feel the need to cheat!

2006-06-28 06:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 3 · 2 1

The only time I thought about it was when I was married to my EX-husband. Now that I'm with someone I truly love and who makes me happy, I don't ever think about other guys or look at other guys, let alone think about cheating. I don't plan on ever getting to a point in my relationship where I would. My heart and loyalty lies with him.

2006-06-30 11:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder Woman 2 · 1 0

Personally no. I'm not married though have been in long relationships lasting several years. I just don't get excited unless I'm emotionally attached to a person.

To bring someone I love pleasure is more exciting to me than what any good looking stranger can ever do.

2006-06-28 06:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 1 0

I have been married 13yrs and think about it all the time and even had my chance but didn't go through with it. I think its normal if you have been married a long time or if you get married young like me.I got married a month after i turned 18.

2006-06-28 06:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

There are points in a person's life where the thought of cheating is inevitable especially if you see someone you like so much. I mean you really really like to have, to hold or to love. And women are guilty of this too.

2006-06-28 06:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Manny J 1 · 0 0

I don't, and this is my second marriage, so I can honestly say that in my first I never thought about cheating on my husband, until he cheated on me. I took him back of course, but I still wanted payback, and I got it to. However, that is not the right thing to do.

2006-06-28 06:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0 0

well i can't speak for other women but i always think about it. Ever since I turned 39 (thats 10 yrs ago) I jsut can't seem to get enough sex. every guy i see looks good and I wonder how it would be..

2006-06-30 10:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by cutie2inwy 1 · 0 1

One thing for sure--I'm a black sheep of the whole female population... lol... The last time I ever thought alike with other girls/women was when I just started going to school, but that lasted for only 1 week. I didn't want to be LIKE them, I wanted to be different and unique FROM them. I decided to go into a different path and decide for myself what I want from anyone or anything, and how I want it to be accomplished.

I'm so excited to be in a relationship with the man who loves me with all his heart and soul, and treats me like a Lady. He's amaizing in every way to think of and look at. He's my dream come true. I can tell you right now: I have never cheated on anyone in any shape, form or manner, and I never will no matter what and no matter how difficult life can/will get. Love, honor and respect are my top priority when it comes to relationship with my Husband or anyone else. He's the ONLY one I ever want to be with in every possible way :)

Why would I follow the way the other women do things (i.e.: cheating) when I have the one I always wanted? That word even leaves a bad taste in anyone's mouth. A lot of couples think that it's a solution to any problem, then we end up with regrets, pleas for help, problems, betrayal, hurt feelings, broken hearts, divorces and ruined lives... and for what pray tell? For one night stand with a complete stranger? It (more often than not) is not worth the risk of loosing someone who was with you for so long... After all the sorrow, pain and suffering, people continue doing that to get "the thrill of it all out of the system." Why not just live and be happy? You CAN work out any difficulties and problems once you put your minds to it and work it out TOGETHER to achieve the happiness and joy that both of you are looking for. That's why you're in the relationship in the first place: to see if you'll be able to love the whole person (regardless of any imperfections) and live with them for the rest of your life sharing everything you have... that doesn't mean that you have to share yourself with someone else while you're together with your partner. It'll just show you from a negative side all together, and your partner will know that he/she can never trust you with anything ever again (not just with their heart)... When you're with someone who loves you so much that it takes their breath away, they're ready to give their own life for you in a crisis, and more than willing to share their lives with you and be part of your life for always... Isn't that what everyone wishes to have? If you have it, why throw it all away for someone else who might not even be worth it in the long run as well as make you regret the act for the rest of your life?

Think about this for a moment... When it comes to cheating... Women have an ability to move on a lot faster than Men after their spouse has cheated on them. The reason to that is that Men are more personal and consider having a woman only to themselves (NEVER to share her with ANYONE else, no matter if it's his brother or friend), if the Woman does the unfaithful act it makes the Man feel inadequate (in his thinking on ALL levels, he assumes right away that he's "broken" when he's not), and men RARELY (if ever) forgive the woman. Unlike Men, Women have a capacity to forgive and move faster (in most of their thinking: there are a lot more fish in the sea), and at times with a complete disregard for everything else... Everything depends on the man and the woman, of course, but either one seldom forgives and forgets the act when it's done. Relationship can deteriorate within 12 to 24 hours after one partner found out the truth... So advice in this one will be: DO NOT under any circumstances do something like this. It was known AND recorded in the real life that there's a higher percentage of suicides among Men than it is for Women (7 to 1 ratio) when it comes to knowing an ugly truth like that.

I don't know if I'm making any sense, but that's what I think on this subject.

2006-06-28 06:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0 0

Of course women think about it, when you see a good looking man, it crosses your mind, but whether you do it or not is a totally different thing.

2006-06-28 06:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0 0

yes married woman just think and maybe Fancie about being with someone new keep the engery level up nothing wrong with thinking about it just dont take action

2006-06-28 06:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by demetrius n 2 · 0 0

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