I just want to know if a woman can legitimately have a sexual affair with no emotional strings attached? Men say they do, do women?
2006-06-28 05:50:47 · 31 answers · asked by chuckie2222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you should never have an affair, for whatever reason. There is a serious sense of mistrust, no loyalty or faithfulness and above all love. How can you say you love someone and be an infidel? Even if you weren't able to "you know", she shouldn't be running around in bed with someone else. That's like you dying and she's being intimate with someone else. You aren't even dead yet. No, I do NOT agree with this. Some woman would say but men do it....but that does not make it right or okay. Wrong is wrong. Cheating is cheating. Work out the problem. Best wishes and take care.
2006-06-28 05:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by mothergoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all any affair is wrong..you took vows and made a commitment to your spouse and if you break those you lose sooo much more than you realize and do more harm than you think about at the time. Affairs destroy trust and sometimes you never get that back but they also hurt the person's self esteem ...there's a lot of questioning about what you did so wrong to make your spouse go somewhere else etc. In answer to your question I don't think you can just have sex for sex ..I think eventually there are strings attached even if you don't want there to be. It's hard to be that intimate with someone and NOT get attached in some way either for the intimacy or the companionship.
2006-06-28 12:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by lb87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe anyone can be intimate with a person and not have an emotional attachment. Even guys. But women have more of an emotional response with physical intimacy, because that's how we are built.
Just my own 2-cents, but you should also consider the damage you would do to your marriage, which is definitely an emotional bond. Also, you would need to re-evaluate your feelings for your husband. If you want someone else, how strong can your feelings for him be?
2006-06-28 12:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say NO. Most women want the emotional attachment that goes along with being with a man. Besides I don't think you can really love someone and have an affair, to me that is not love.
2006-06-28 12:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by lostinlove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what does that say about you and how seriously you took your vows. I do believe that there are people who can CHEAT only for the physical. Should they is the real question. I know women who have many sexual partners and no love interest, meaning no one that they love or want to be in a relationship with.
2006-06-28 12:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This concept that someone can love only one person at a time is crap. Marriage or being over 40 has nothing to with it. There are literally hundreds, perhaps thousands of people in the world you could potentially love, and if you have infinite time and money, you could love them all at the same time. Sex and love are not the same. You can love with no sex and have sex with no love. When will people accept this.
2006-06-28 12:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they could I mean men do it all the time. Even though It's rare that a woman doesn't get attached to her partner. I would say it still could happen.
2006-06-28 12:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she can - if she has no morals and no conscience. People do it all the time. Men do it, women do it. What's the point in being married if you need to cheat - just get a divorce.
2006-06-28 13:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so...but how people can turn their emotions on and off so easily is beyond me.I guess that's the reason for so many divorces is people messing around on each other.I mean apparently neither you nor her have given thought to how this would make her husband feel if he found out.Some people have no morals.
2006-06-28 12:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Heather D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can do. No harm in ahving ex with ur othr intimates. But c how is ur hus. He will co-operate if u r telling to him. Both choose ur best friend couple and swap. No body is cheating any body. v can't marry again and again to have sex with our likes. Life is only once . That is for enjoying whatever way both the partners like. It will increase both partners trust,confidence and everything.
Go ahead all the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 13:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by salinak s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋